"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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the_azn_fu

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its just that after saying it sooo many times, its special meaning begins to wear off you know? any suggestions or reasons of how NOT to say it when she initiates?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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musclyjerk

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Say nothing!

If it's on the phone when she says it when you're about to hang-up just say 'Yeah cya' it's really not difficult.

If she's with you in person just smile and say nothing.

She won't ask 'do you love me?' if you don't say it if she really loves you!

The Muscly Jerk
 
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Skilla_Staz

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If she says "I love you" just smile, and kiss the broad

I personally, let the girl know from the beginning that I won't say I love you unless I FEEL like I do. I've only said to one girl, and I didn't even know what I was doing.
 
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