"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Saying "Hi"

chicmagnet

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A lot of times in college when I'm passing by girls whom I know don't make eye contact. Should I say hi even when they don't make ec? This happens even when they are not with a group. Should I just call out there name and say Hi or does this show that I'm too interested? And what about in groups? for instance I know only one girl in a group which is walking pass me.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i am me

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depends who it is. if u dont know her that well then wait til she knows you're there to say hi (you can make this obvious tho if u walk from the right direction)
 

biketrials

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I like to say hi to everyone to be nice plus if they become interested and start talking to me because of it then it is a plus for me.
 

Muphaser

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If you look at her eyes, youll get that instance where she looks into your eyes, shoot a smile... then hi... then work her

Jus dont look like a gorm ^_^
 
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