"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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saying hello on sosuave

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Would like the opportunity to say hello on sosuave as a new member. I often read through posts to seek advice myself - just as many women as men on here so thought it would be okay to register as a female?. Just as many women contribute to 'good advice' as men. :) hate gate-crashers myself - why it is always a great place to start to introduce yourself and seek forum member approval.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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shikiraclare

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By the way, this a very old picture of me if you are wondering - still incredibly beautiful today and look noting at all like my actual age.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Desdinova

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I've been here for 16 years. There have been more women signing up in the last year than there have in the previous five years. The funny thing is they're all above age 40.

I guess GenX women need attention too :D
 
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