"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Saying chick she's not that beautiful .... a no no?

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I'm talking about a stripper, who is my acquaintance, she's hot and all that. She showed no signs of interest, so I thought what the hell, one thing led to another, and I made her say "I'm hot".

I told her, you're not that hot. you're kinda average. a 7.5. She said 5 is average, 7.5 is hot. I told her 5 is the bottom of the barrel, 7.5 is average. We kinda got into it, and she ended up telling me my scale is all wrong, and 7.5 should be a 10. And she called me an ahole, she said it could be that I'm just honest, but still, I'm an ahole.

So anyway. I wonder, is it ever ok to talk about woman's beauty in terms of you're not as hot as you think you are?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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supam said:
I'm talking about a stripper, who is my acquaintance, she's hot and all that. She showed no signs of interest, so I thought what the hell, one thing led to another, and I made her say "I'm hot".

I told her, you're not that hot. you're kinda average. a 7.5. She said 5 is average, 7.5 is hot. I told her 5 is the bottom of the barrel, 7.5 is average. We kinda got into it, and she ended up telling me my scale is all wrong, and 7.5 should be a 10. And she called me an ahole, she said it could be that I'm just honest, but still, I'm an ahole.

So anyway. I wonder, is it ever ok to talk about woman's beauty in terms of you're not as hot as you think you are?
Didn't you laugh your ass off? I know I did. Haha!
 

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Haha that had great potential. But you Fd it up. Always know your purpose!
 

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You can do it, but not the way you went about it. You discussed it as a somewhat straight, serious discussion. In that way, you were insulting her.

It's not the best topic to speak with a woman with, but if you're going to do so, make a joke out of it, it goes down better with humor.

But otherwise, no. Putting down a woman just makes you come off as mean and angry to her. That's why she called you an a-hole.

But let me ask you: if a woman shows little or no sign of interest in you, is it smarter to further lower their interest or to see if you can raise it, even if it's purely for practice?
 

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raise it.


yea, it felt like I came off as an ahole. but oh well, practice makes it perfect.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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you know I never thought of this, but it occurs to me that arguing with a stripper (who is just using me for attention anyway) over the "scale" could actually help pass the time on a boring Sunday afternoon.
 

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supam said:
I'm talking about a stripper, who is my acquaintance, she's hot and all that. She showed no signs of interest, so I thought what the hell, one thing led to another, and I made her say "I'm hot".

I told her, you're not that hot. you're kinda average. a 7.5. She said 5 is average, 7.5 is hot. I told her 5 is the bottom of the barrel, 7.5 is average. We kinda got into it, and she ended up telling me my scale is all wrong, and 7.5 should be a 10. And she called me an ahole, she said it could be that I'm just honest, but still, I'm an ahole.

So anyway. I wonder, is it ever ok to talk about woman's beauty in terms of you're not as hot as you think you are?
hahaha I did this and my friend thought i dissed her. she walked away upset but being a stripper thought she wasnt good enough. no worries, good job
 

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usually when you tell a girl that she not pretty, it doesnt end well.
 
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