"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Saying chick she's not that beautiful .... a no no?

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I'm talking about a stripper, who is my acquaintance, she's hot and all that. She showed no signs of interest, so I thought what the hell, one thing led to another, and I made her say "I'm hot".

I told her, you're not that hot. you're kinda average. a 7.5. She said 5 is average, 7.5 is hot. I told her 5 is the bottom of the barrel, 7.5 is average. We kinda got into it, and she ended up telling me my scale is all wrong, and 7.5 should be a 10. And she called me an ahole, she said it could be that I'm just honest, but still, I'm an ahole.

So anyway. I wonder, is it ever ok to talk about woman's beauty in terms of you're not as hot as you think you are?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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supam said:
I'm talking about a stripper, who is my acquaintance, she's hot and all that. She showed no signs of interest, so I thought what the hell, one thing led to another, and I made her say "I'm hot".

I told her, you're not that hot. you're kinda average. a 7.5. She said 5 is average, 7.5 is hot. I told her 5 is the bottom of the barrel, 7.5 is average. We kinda got into it, and she ended up telling me my scale is all wrong, and 7.5 should be a 10. And she called me an ahole, she said it could be that I'm just honest, but still, I'm an ahole.

So anyway. I wonder, is it ever ok to talk about woman's beauty in terms of you're not as hot as you think you are?
Didn't you laugh your ass off? I know I did. Haha!
 

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Haha that had great potential. But you Fd it up. Always know your purpose!
 

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You can do it, but not the way you went about it. You discussed it as a somewhat straight, serious discussion. In that way, you were insulting her.

It's not the best topic to speak with a woman with, but if you're going to do so, make a joke out of it, it goes down better with humor.

But otherwise, no. Putting down a woman just makes you come off as mean and angry to her. That's why she called you an a-hole.

But let me ask you: if a woman shows little or no sign of interest in you, is it smarter to further lower their interest or to see if you can raise it, even if it's purely for practice?
 

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raise it.


yea, it felt like I came off as an ahole. but oh well, practice makes it perfect.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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you know I never thought of this, but it occurs to me that arguing with a stripper (who is just using me for attention anyway) over the "scale" could actually help pass the time on a boring Sunday afternoon.
 

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supam said:
I'm talking about a stripper, who is my acquaintance, she's hot and all that. She showed no signs of interest, so I thought what the hell, one thing led to another, and I made her say "I'm hot".

I told her, you're not that hot. you're kinda average. a 7.5. She said 5 is average, 7.5 is hot. I told her 5 is the bottom of the barrel, 7.5 is average. We kinda got into it, and she ended up telling me my scale is all wrong, and 7.5 should be a 10. And she called me an ahole, she said it could be that I'm just honest, but still, I'm an ahole.

So anyway. I wonder, is it ever ok to talk about woman's beauty in terms of you're not as hot as you think you are?
hahaha I did this and my friend thought i dissed her. she walked away upset but being a stripper thought she wasnt good enough. no worries, good job
 

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usually when you tell a girl that she not pretty, it doesnt end well.
 
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