You just started dating a girl 2 weeks ago and have been fucking multiple times a day every day since then. Should you be the one to text that bitch first during the break or should you always hold out regardless of how shy/inexperienced/awkward she is?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Say you're on thanksgiving break during college
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- Start date
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Maximummax
Senior Don Juan
Don't ext too much or don't ignore her too much
keep it normal, don't kill the attraction.
I don't know what's her interest level right now. You would know better than me
keep it normal, don't kill the attraction.
I don't know what's her interest level right now. You would know better than me
A DJ would not engage in communication with her until she texts first. Girls are a lot less fragile and more proud than society claims they are.
The interest level:
I leave my phone at my apartment to play video games for an hour with friends. Once I return, I find 3 text messages and 2 phone calls for her with the basic idea of "I thought we were going to hang out tonight?? WTF!" She follows me out to the dumpster to take out the trash. She told me she's in love with me, called me her boyfriend before I let it be official, and assumed we were dating after we started ****ing. She's only been with one guy before me and she's 24. She had no idea what the slang "clit" meant and I suspect she has no idea how to locate her ****oris.
She's got some sort of undiagnosed autism spectrum disorder and I am basically her only friend in this graduate program. She's spent the last week basically living in my apartment. The clincher here, though, is that we were really good friends for 2 months before ****ing. I tried to makeout with her sometime early in October, but she rejected me by saying "No, not really. I'm really awkward" when I asked her if she wanted a kiss. The non-verbals were totally cold, so I figured all she wanted was to be friends until a couple weeks ago where she ****ing finally sat on my recliner with me and I just jumped on her.
What I suspect happened was that she was initially cold because she was trying to see if she could attract other options. Lo and behold, we're in a graduate program of mostly women, she has no social skills (yet should be pretty enough to attract approaches, I sure as **** approached her out of nowhere), and I was the only guy to express interest. There's a guy back home in VA that made out with her a week before she rejected my initial makeout attempt.
Me:
I'm an average guy around a 6. I've been described as charismatic and outgoing. You could say my pickup game is nearly perfect for my looks level, and provided that I have a social circle, I will get laid at a steady clip. Ugly girls ask me how I date girls out of my league. I went from being a 23 (nearly 24) y/o virgin to banging 12 girls in about 1.5 yrs mostly while living in my mom's basement and driving a 2002 toyota corolla.
If I have some girl hogging all my waking hours, how the fudge am I supposed to have options? I can't bang two girls in the same small graduate program on a campus of only 5,000 people. I just got laid off at my job and there's a good chance this girl will find out about it. I was thinking of picking up a political cause and going petitioning as a way to meet women without a social group. My standards are too high to enjoy the women I get from cold approach at bars (I'll approach the hot chicks in such settings, but I rarely get them; ugly girls, however, are like slicing a warm knife through butter). Most of the girls I get through social circle are butterfaces and the conventionally pretty ones rarely exceed an 8 with severe mental health issues (BPD/bipolar type II).
Tell me what you guys think about my original question.
The interest level:
I leave my phone at my apartment to play video games for an hour with friends. Once I return, I find 3 text messages and 2 phone calls for her with the basic idea of "I thought we were going to hang out tonight?? WTF!" She follows me out to the dumpster to take out the trash. She told me she's in love with me, called me her boyfriend before I let it be official, and assumed we were dating after we started ****ing. She's only been with one guy before me and she's 24. She had no idea what the slang "clit" meant and I suspect she has no idea how to locate her ****oris.
She's got some sort of undiagnosed autism spectrum disorder and I am basically her only friend in this graduate program. She's spent the last week basically living in my apartment. The clincher here, though, is that we were really good friends for 2 months before ****ing. I tried to makeout with her sometime early in October, but she rejected me by saying "No, not really. I'm really awkward" when I asked her if she wanted a kiss. The non-verbals were totally cold, so I figured all she wanted was to be friends until a couple weeks ago where she ****ing finally sat on my recliner with me and I just jumped on her.
What I suspect happened was that she was initially cold because she was trying to see if she could attract other options. Lo and behold, we're in a graduate program of mostly women, she has no social skills (yet should be pretty enough to attract approaches, I sure as **** approached her out of nowhere), and I was the only guy to express interest. There's a guy back home in VA that made out with her a week before she rejected my initial makeout attempt.
Me:
I'm an average guy around a 6. I've been described as charismatic and outgoing. You could say my pickup game is nearly perfect for my looks level, and provided that I have a social circle, I will get laid at a steady clip. Ugly girls ask me how I date girls out of my league. I went from being a 23 (nearly 24) y/o virgin to banging 12 girls in about 1.5 yrs mostly while living in my mom's basement and driving a 2002 toyota corolla.
If I have some girl hogging all my waking hours, how the fudge am I supposed to have options? I can't bang two girls in the same small graduate program on a campus of only 5,000 people. I just got laid off at my job and there's a good chance this girl will find out about it. I was thinking of picking up a political cause and going petitioning as a way to meet women without a social group. My standards are too high to enjoy the women I get from cold approach at bars (I'll approach the hot chicks in such settings, but I rarely get them; ugly girls, however, are like slicing a warm knife through butter). Most of the girls I get through social circle are butterfaces and the conventionally pretty ones rarely exceed an 8 with severe mental health issues (BPD/bipolar type II).
Tell me what you guys think about my original question.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Maximummax
Senior Don Juan
Since she is already into you. yuo paying less attention to this girl works perfectly. Don't need to worry about this chick. if she goes let her go. since you are getting good at the game, get more plate.
Looking for answer to my Question, that i posted, take a look at it
Looking for answer to my Question, that i posted, take a look at it
I told you about her interest level 
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My main weakness is relationships. I can bang several new 6's and 7's a year (10's are theoretical [don't exist] on my scale, so a 6 is very ****able), but I cannot have a relationship with a girl ever. They always dump me.
. My main weakness is relationships. I can bang several new 6's and 7's a year (10's are theoretical [don't exist] on my scale, so a 6 is very ****able), but I cannot have a relationship with a girl ever. They always dump me.