"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Say you could make every woman you ever met fall in love with you, would you do it?

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If you could cast a spell on every woman you ever spoke with to fall in love with you, and you knew of course you could not even take all of them out, never mind have a relationship with them, would you do it?

Would this cause more pain to the women you would reject than the pleasure it would give them to feel such feelings for you?

Is there any selfishness is trying to make most women attracted to you, yet knowing you will not reciprocate for many of them?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What, if you could choose which ones? Hell yeah. If it was every woman and you didn't have a choice, cos then avery woman in the world except one would be heartbroken.

Why do you ask? Got your hands on a magic lamp or something?
 

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L777 said:
What, if you could choose which ones? Hell yeah. If it was every woman and you didn't have a choice, cos then avery woman in the world except one would be heartbroken.

Why do you ask? Got your hands on a magic lamp or something?
No, say you had no choice.

The question is really about players, not magic spells or any of that ****.

Is it selfish to try to make most women attracted to you, yet knowing you will not reciprocate for many of them?

Do you give a damn if a woman loves you but you don't feel anything for her?
 

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The_Reaper said:
No, say you had no choice.

The question is really about players, not magic spells or any of that ****.

Is it selfish to try to make most women attracted to you, yet knowing you will not reciprocate for many of them?

Do you give a damn if a woman loves you but you don't feel anything for her?
Well I personally think being 'in love' with someone takes a long time to develop....being attracted to someone is something different. The player makes women attracted to him and then, depending on his motives, leaves them afterwards or makes them a part of his rotation etc.

I have no guilt over making women attracted to me and then finishing with them after the deal is sealed. We both have a good time and thats all there is to it. Always leave them better than you found them.

If a woman actually was properly in love with me and I didn't feel the same way, I wouldn't pretend to love her back....it would just be wrong.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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L777 said:
Well I personally think being 'in love' with someone takes a long time to develop....being attracted to someone is something different. The player makes women attracted to him and then, depending on his motives, leaves them afterwards or makes them a part of his rotation etc.

I have no guilt over making women attracted to me and then finishing with them after the deal is sealed. We both have a good time and thats all there is to it. Always leave them better than you found them.

If a woman actually was properly in love with me and I didn't feel the same way, I wouldn't pretend to love her back....it would just be wrong.
What if she doesn't want to seal the deal and wants instead to stay with you?

What about potential stalkers?
 

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I wouldnt want every woman to fall in love with me but what I do is what a Don Juan would do and that is to never leave any woman without her being satisfied. That is the mark of a true DJ.

Lets imagine every woman fell in love with you... you would be running down the street like in that one movie "The Bachelor." I would like it if I could get every 5/10 woman I hook up with to fall in love with me though that would be tasty:)
 

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The_Reaper said:
...Is there any selfishness is trying to make most women attracted to you, yet knowing you will not reciprocate for many of them?
Is this just to boost your ego or is there some other underlying purpose?
 

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The_Reaper said:
What if she doesn't want to seal the deal and wants instead to stay with you?

What about potential stalkers?
What if you get hit by a bus tomorrow?

What if you lose your **** in a bizzarre gardening accident?

What ifs are wasted energy.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I'd get the CEO of Ebay to become infatuated with me and have me on he personal payroll for about 1 million a month
 

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thats a tough one

pros:
bang any chick you want
get sugar mommas

cons:
wouldnt your family members fall in love with you?
you would have about a zillion stalkers

i would say no, i wouldnt want it.
 

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I've felt like I could do this - and I can tell you that no is a good answer. Why would you want women who don't like you to fall in love with you? That would be leading them onn, and I hate seeing their faces once they realize you do not feel the same way towards them, it hurts them very much, and it will hurt you even MORE to see them this way.
Find a woman you absolutely are attracted to and work on her - that is it.
 

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The_Reaper said:
Is it selfish to try to make most women attracted to you, yet knowing you will not reciprocate for many of them?
Who gives a sh1t? They all go out dressed like wh0res to attract men knowing full well they will have nothing to do with most of them.

So yeah. They could all suffer from a severe case of ruckusitis for all I care. Think they worry about all the hard ons that will never get relief that they cause?
 

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To the OP, you should write a movie script about this guy who wished for every woman to fall in love with him, and then how it turns out bad but his one love remains or something.

A comedy....someone like Jim Carey could star. I can actually just see it now...:D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I have mixed feelings on this in that, concerning women who are spiritually (usually a large ambition like getting married Quick) connected to me before they are sexually attracted to me, I feel more of an obligation not to lead them down that path the way I'd lead some hoe from a bar or club down to my c0ck. Some of my sisters really need it, but I'd rather just keep them at bay as best I can until or "if" one of them really "tries" to do better with me (maybe lose weight, always look her best, act alone all the time on her cellphone trying to get me to see her alone, always say "hi" when we are around each other even if we've got nothing to say).

The ones that are just young or naive to fall into my trap, I don't feel sorry for, because we have nothing in common outside of sexual affection. She may feel bad but, that's tough, I Really don't know you, and you're not in the same boat as these other girls over here who I know share my beliefs or outlooks on life (matters not pertaining to sex, dancing, drinking, blowing money, tanning, swimming, school even etc). I've had the ones act like they can't go on with life, because I refused to show them attention after I had showed them a little attention and my wallet, and they walk around aimlessly, looking for me or another me, well even if they found me, I would not let her head fall on my shoulder or heart. She's just gonna have to live with the facts that she can't have me, and I'll forget her name or call her by her last name.
 
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Depends on what the price is spiritually. I mean - something would be wrong with me spiritually if I was really that vain. I should be happy without seeking validation or wanting every, or any woman for that matter to provide happiness in my life.

That's one vein. Another vein is spells are witchcraft and occult -- manipulating other people. That's not right. If someone loves me, then I would like that to be natural or genuine, something that is of God, not some devilish counterfeit.

The fact is that true inner person we all are - is not what is being liked - it's the image that someone has of us that is liked, and not who we really are and that would not be acceptable. I dont want people to fall in love with a perceived image they have of me under a spell because that's not the real me. They aren't really connecting with me - they are connecting with someone else and would be nothing more than mindless zombies under the influence of something to me.
 

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uh...no....lol................
 
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