say whatever you want is not getting through

[Jamal]

Ive been following Flawless Natural and Blueprint material and they would recommend saying what ever you want to say and I try to use that in school but most of the time the only thing that comes to my mind is about school. I don't think talking about school and classes all day will work with a girl and they will find it mad boring...don't know how the self is coming through there. Can you guys just please give me any advice...would be greatly appreciated. For example, There is this girl I want to go to prom with and I try to talk to her but the only thing I can say is how our class is cause she is in my math class, don't know how to make attraction with that convo unless your just direct with her.

 

[Stblack]

It sounds like you're overthinking bro. There are plenty of things to talk about but you're trying too hard.

In what kind of situation are you talking about though? Is this in class or at lunch? Etc. Need a little more info

In general, telling stories that are interesting or funny are good. Make sure you don't tell it in a monotone voice. Or try teasing her. That makes things incredibly easy too. After teasing a girl, you usually form some kind of inside joke with her.

For instance, there is a girl in my Spanish class I've been interested in recently. Today, she was telling me how she gets annoyed with little kids and always wants to hit them. Of course I run with this and call her a child beater. She gets all "offended"... blah blah blah. Its easy

 

[EvilAgenda]

ROFL @ child beater.

Stblack is right. You are overthinking it. I found when this happens it means you are thinking about trying to get in her pants too often. Wrong approach. Think of her as your best friend and nothing else (or like she's your little sister).

Do talk about school,,but you are absolutely right,,how your class was today makes for a boring converstation. Ask her about the most embarrassing thing that happened to her in school today. Or what was the wildest thing she has done last month,,and then accuse her of not getting out much. Or if she would dare to wrestle a grandpa while wearing nothing but a bikini,,in a school environment,,for a worthy charity of her choosing,,and then make fun of her for actually agreeing to do it.

Topics to talk about (DeAngelo's newsletter had many ideas):
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Topic - example
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Hollywood gossip - I saw a magazine in a store that Barrack Obama is gay. (then crossanalyze that,,like The Monica scandall,,Condy,,AND NOW gay rumors? And there I thought that only women were THIS crazy with their ambitions)

The IF stuff - If you won the lottery..... (finish with something out of the ordinary)... what percentage of the winnings would you spend on shoes?

Relationships - My friend broke up with this girl cuz she gained too much weight. (Then make a ridicolous thery of how every fat girl is lesbian)

Make FUN of her/Tease/Flirt - Do you want to say hi or continue flirting from a distance (Bloody brilliant opener,,you can do variations of it too).

Make FUN of others - Pick some overweight kid in a sporty outfit from ur school,,nod in his direction so she'd see,,and casually say,,Look at that kid... who is HE trying to fool like he works out.

Crossanalyze others/other couples - (Brilliant ****) Get really good at reading body language. Pick a random couple,,and say things like,,Look at that guy,,he is like all leaning in,,and she is like totally woaaaaaah. He is DEFINITELY not getting any no matter how MANY compliments he gives.




BIGGEST TIP on TOPICS
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1) Do NOT make it an interview,,answer HER question in a teasing/****y way.
- so what do you do?
- I'm a lion tamer (make **** up like that,,then say in ur homeland,,u tamed lions all the time,,but when u moved here they have no lions,,what's up with that?! Yeaaa,,kinda like Siegfried and Roy,,except without the gay stuff. Although the lions DID have a crush on me. Act ****y and *smirk* like u r remembering all this ****)

2) Come up with teasing questions for her
- Sounds like you didn't get enough sleep last night
- yeah,,I got home at 2.
- Out so late at night? Still looking for your vampire/Edward?
- Haha,,u bet.
- Well,,how is that going for you?
- something stupid
- *raise an eybrow* repeat the stupid part back to her like you are judging her and she just said something completely stupid and finish off with. You've just lost your speaking privileges for the next hour.

3) And remember it's not WHAT you say,,it's HOW you say it.
You can say the most ridicolous thing (example: STOP TALKING WHILE I'M INTERRUPTING). If your delivery was awesome,,she will have SHOCK in her eyes,,and laugh nervously like "I CAN'T BELIEVE HE JUST SAID THAT!". If you can make a girl shy/nervous around you,,that means she has developed a mad crush on you. (then you tease her about being so nervous and shy around you)

If all else fails:
- Has anyone ever told you that you talk a lot?
- Actually...?... yes
- They shouldn't have

- Has anyone ever told you that you talk a lot?
- no
- Well,,there is a reason for that.