"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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say whatever you want is not getting through

Jamal

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Ive been following Flawless Natural and Blueprint material and they would recommend saying what ever you want to say and I try to use that in school but most of the time the only thing that comes to my mind is about school. I don't think talking about school and classes all day will work with a girl and they will find it mad boring...don't know how the self is coming through there. Can you guys just please give me any advice...would be greatly appreciated. For example, There is this girl I want to go to prom with and I try to talk to her but the only thing I can say is how our class is cause she is in my math class, don't know how to make attraction with that convo unless your just direct with her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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coolness89

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talk about school, friends, weekend, etc. man
lots of stuff to talk about
 

COD

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ask her what she thinks of the group all american rejects and their new song Gives U hell...........

I think those guys meant stay away from canned openers and be more natural/genuine. The only flaw with that is U are new...........when starting out.......start with stock/canned opinions/indirect approaches, then personalise those openers THEN make some new/more natural openers.

and read my article on SMILE!
 
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