"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Say to a girl (ex) to be just FB

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So tomorrow I am meeting with an ex (work related stuff-we don't work together anymore) and I am thinking telling her the FB thing like "the only thing that could be between us at this point is to just meet 1-2-3 whatever times a week and just have sex".
I am going to say this,mostly to see her reaction and why not to get a new FB :).
We never were "in love" or in a very serious relationship,but I didn't see her for 2-3 weeks so it's kind of all of a sudden.
What do you think?Is there a better way to say this?And it's no prob. if she will reject this idea.
 

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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

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Well, it depends on a lot of things. Was it a bad breakup? Obviously you're still attracted to her; does she feel the same way?

How long have you been broken up? If it really is 'all of a sudden' she may think you want to get back together but don't have the balls to say so.

With my FB, it was a very amicable split, and I brought up the idea of being FBs during the actual breakup talk.
 
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Was it a bad breakup?
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Nop,we just started to see each other lesser,talking on the phone max one time a weak and then it just stoped,but we have this one thing (work stuff) so we will meet tomorrow.

Obviously you're still attracted to her; does she feel the same way?
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Well I am still attracted to her physicaly,but that's all.As for her, I really don't know about the emotional attraction for me,the physical/sex part I am sure she liked when we were in "the relationship".

How long have you been broken up?
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2-3 weeks

If it really is 'all of a sudden' she may think you want to get back together but don't have the balls to say so.
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I don't know about this,but to be honest I don't really care.
 
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