"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Say to a girl (ex) to be just FB

yogy

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So tomorrow I am meeting with an ex (work related stuff-we don't work together anymore) and I am thinking telling her the FB thing like "the only thing that could be between us at this point is to just meet 1-2-3 whatever times a week and just have sex".
I am going to say this,mostly to see her reaction and why not to get a new FB :).
We never were "in love" or in a very serious relationship,but I didn't see her for 2-3 weeks so it's kind of all of a sudden.
What do you think?Is there a better way to say this?And it's no prob. if she will reject this idea.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Leporello

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Well, it depends on a lot of things. Was it a bad breakup? Obviously you're still attracted to her; does she feel the same way?

How long have you been broken up? If it really is 'all of a sudden' she may think you want to get back together but don't have the balls to say so.

With my FB, it was a very amicable split, and I brought up the idea of being FBs during the actual breakup talk.
 

yogy

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Was it a bad breakup?
Nop,we just started to see each other lesser,talking on the phone max one time a weak and then it just stoped,but we have this one thing (work stuff) so we will meet tomorrow.

Obviously you're still attracted to her; does she feel the same way?
Well I am still attracted to her physicaly,but that's all.As for her, I really don't know about the emotional attraction for me,the physical/sex part I am sure she liked when we were in "the relationship".

How long have you been broken up?
2-3 weeks

If it really is 'all of a sudden' she may think you want to get back together but don't have the balls to say so.
I don't know about this,but to be honest I don't really care.
 
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