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Say to a girl (ex) to be just FB

yogy

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So tomorrow I am meeting with an ex (work related stuff-we don't work together anymore) and I am thinking telling her the FB thing like "the only thing that could be between us at this point is to just meet 1-2-3 whatever times a week and just have sex".
I am going to say this,mostly to see her reaction and why not to get a new FB :).
We never were "in love" or in a very serious relationship,but I didn't see her for 2-3 weeks so it's kind of all of a sudden.
What do you think?Is there a better way to say this?And it's no prob. if she will reject this idea.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Leporello

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Well, it depends on a lot of things. Was it a bad breakup? Obviously you're still attracted to her; does she feel the same way?

How long have you been broken up? If it really is 'all of a sudden' she may think you want to get back together but don't have the balls to say so.

With my FB, it was a very amicable split, and I brought up the idea of being FBs during the actual breakup talk.
 

yogy

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Was it a bad breakup?
Nop,we just started to see each other lesser,talking on the phone max one time a weak and then it just stoped,but we have this one thing (work stuff) so we will meet tomorrow.

Obviously you're still attracted to her; does she feel the same way?
Well I am still attracted to her physicaly,but that's all.As for her, I really don't know about the emotional attraction for me,the physical/sex part I am sure she liked when we were in "the relationship".

How long have you been broken up?
2-3 weeks

If it really is 'all of a sudden' she may think you want to get back together but don't have the balls to say so.
I don't know about this,but to be honest I don't really care.
 
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