"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Saw what used to be a HB8 today...what happened??

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I saw this girl I used to know 5 years ago. She used to be super thin and hot all around.

Well, 5 years later I barely recognized her! She must have put on 30 lbs and her butt was bouncing up and down like a beach ball. Legs fatter than an oak tree.

What the hell happened? How can a woman change so much in a few years? She did NOT have any kids, so that theory is out the window.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Women peak. Some peak in looks later than others, but for all girls its basically an upward slope then a downward slope. Of course some girls have a higher peak than others, but they all fall down the hill at some point or another. Girls know this, and this is where alot of jealousy comes from. Its also a reason why feminists hate men...men can evolve and go through "roller coasters" of looks...

Either she just went downhill or life hit her. Hard and fast. :D ;)
 
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LostAndConfused said:
Women peak. Some peak in looks later than others, but for all girls its basically an upward slope then a downward slope. Of course some girls have a higher peak than others, but they all fall down the hill at some point or another. Girls know this, and this is where alot of jealousy comes from. Its also a reason why feminists hate men...men can evolve and go through "roller coasters" of looks...

Either she just went downhill or life hit her. Hard and fast. :D ;)
It can't be that hard to go to the gym. I think it's too late for her now. Is there any chance she'll get back to the thin HB 8 I used to know?
 

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Looks fade and for some quicker than others. So, we all need to stop being so damn superficial and find people we enjoy. Find girls we'll enjoy.
 

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Women get lazy, stop caring, stop trying, and then blame their extra 35 pounds on "genes and aging". It's bullshyt.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Master Bates said:
Women get lazy, stop caring, stop trying, and then blame their extra 35 pounds on "genes and aging". It's bullshyt.
Fat girls need lovin', too.
 
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tick37 said:
Looks fade and for some quicker than others. So, we all need to stop being so damn superficial and find people we enjoy. Find girls we'll enjoy.

Looks fade my a$$. She'd be fine if she didn't sit around while 30 lbs crept up on her. She obviously has never seen a treadmill in her life.

She still has a pretty face.
 

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Looks do fade, maybe hers haven't and she's fat, but they do fade. Maybe, since you can't get a woman, you should go for this one.
 

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Look at her face, if it looks more aged she probably won't look as good as she had before.

I think the issue is if she really WANTS to be going to the gym and if she really WANTS to eat healthier to get her looks back.

Why do girls work out to get sexy, tight bodies? For male attraction.

Her metabolism slowed down or her eating habits turned sour, so thats how the pounds "crept" up on her.

:EDIT: Just read your post, yeah, if she has the incentive she can look good again. I doubt she really would, girls are harder to motivate to work than guys. Blame it on being a b1tchy wh0re.


If anything, this should motivate you. Girls stay in shape for YOU! Go out there and approach.
 
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tick37 said:
Looks do fade, maybe hers haven't and she's fat, but they do fade. Maybe, since you can't get a woman, you should go for this one.
Lol I've gotten laid about 10 times since the new year with a 21 yr old hottie that i dumped and she still came back for more.

How are you doing in that department?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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LostAndConfused said:
Look at her face, if it looks more aged she probably won't look as good as she had before.



If anything, this should motivate you. Girls stay in shape for YOU! Go out there and approach.

Can't really tell, since they put on so much make-up. Maybe I will hit it. She's not FAT (yet), just curvy. LOL.
 

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Lol I've gotten laid about 10 times since the new year with a 21 yr old hottie that i dumped and she still came back for more.

How are you doing in that department?
And that makes you happy? What if you didn't get laid? Would you still be happy? I personally don't think you would be, but I don't know everything.
 
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And that makes you happy? What if you didn't get laid? Would you still be happy? I personally don't think you would, but I don't know everything.
I was just replying to your low blow shot about me "not being able to get a woman".

I am having a problem getting multiple women at the same time (IE; spinning plates).

And I am having a problem keeping the women I do get interested in me. This ties in to my problem with spinning plates, I believe.

But I've been OK in the getting them into bed department. Not great I admit, but OK.

And yes, I am much happier than if I never got laid at all.
 

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That's cool, bro. I'm not trying to bring you down. I just think you look up to women instead of seeing them as just women. I read somewhere on here that they are ugly and they stink. They have to use makeup and perfume. It's all in how you portray yourself to them. What does your body language say about you. What does your conversation say about you. There are non-verbal cues that say a lot about you (e.g. calling too much, calling at weird times, talking too much, smiling too much, fidgeting...). Instead of learning the right things to say and when to say them, it's better to learn that you are a great catch and keep those thoughts in your mind. That way you will act the right way when it comes down to it. You're welcoming her into your exciting life, and not the other way around. Be exciting and have an exciting life.

I could get laid more if I wanted to, but I know that's not what makes me happy. Getting laid is only temporary. Anyway, I wish you luck, and maybe you can date this chick and get her slim again. She's probably pretty insecure.
 

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Give me a break dude. Wanting an attractive girl is as superficial as a woman wanting a man with ambition.

Don't settle for less than what you want.
So, you're saying we're not superficial? hahaha Looks are superficial whether you like it or not. Maybe you don't know the definition.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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tick37 said:
So, you're saying we're not superficial? hahaha Looks are superficial whether you like it or not. Maybe you don't know the definition.
The better looking monkey will get more monkey sex then the ugly monkey entertaining people at the zoo with a banana.

What that basically means is that it's part of our primal nature to give our semen to a woman that might mother some pretty monkey's. Because nobody wants their monkey to be a walrus.
 

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thederekeffect1 said:
The better looking monkey will get more monkey sex then the ugly monkey entertaining people at the zoo with a banana.

What that basically means is that it's part of our primal nature to give our semen to a woman that might mother some pretty monkey's. Because nobody wants their monkey to be a walrus.
That's theory, and it pertains to evolution. Evolution is a theory and not proven. So, I'll just stick to my own beliefs. Thanks for trying though.
 

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yeah sometimes it feels better that ..men get better with age...(look at all of us) ...

I know more than three chiks who used to be super hot in my books in school...but now when I see them...I dont feel any attraction whatsoever...
 
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The bottom line here is she would still be hot without the 30 lbs. I don't think you can blame getting fat on age.

Getting fat can be prevented.
 

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tick37 said:
That's theory, and it pertains to evolution. Evolution is a theory and not proven. So, I'll just stick to my own beliefs. Thanks for trying though.
Okay, it's a theory. I won't argue with you, monkey. But let's do a little experiment. Okay, we're going to eliminate everything that attracts you to a woman. And just because my last post was more scientific then belief, I'm going to add an equation. Let's eliminate everything that attracts you to a woman. Non-physical attraction = X. X = Non-existent. Let's throw physical attraction back into the equation. Physical Attraction = Y. Y = Existent. So, we have Y-X=Z(attraction). Currently, you're attracted to a woman based off of looks alone.

In real life, Y+X=Z, but you need Y with X to equal Z. If we have Y-X or X-Y, then we have B (dismissal).

All in all, I'm trying to say that physical attraction definatly plays a part in attraction and you can deny it all you want, but all in all, if you're human, you'd rather have something physically attractive over something non-physically attractive. Would you rather have a beat up 1985 wagon or a brand new 2008 lamborghini? Sure, you may want the car that runs better, but no girl is going to get into the ugly car.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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