"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Saw the ex out,..funny story

RobLB

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Well I saw the ole ex out at a party last night and I totally ingored her. It actually felt pretty good! Funny thing is she confronted my wingy(my best friend) and told him that she was sorry about all the crap that happened(remember I live in a small town) and she thinks she made a mistake breaking up with me(haha) and that how sweet of a guy I was and that she just wants me to be happy, blah,blah,blah. WTF?? She told him this because she knew him being my best friend, that he was going to tell me excactly what she said. It just amazes me how some girls can be so blind that they don't see when they sh!t on man and ruin his life and then say some crap like that!!
I actually felt better today than I have in a long time. I also booked a date Wed night with a chick I met last night at the party!!

There is light at the end of the tunnel!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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TheTrimReaper

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I was hoping to hear something like this. :woo: Your ex is still wallowing in her guilt while you are chasing tail. She told your friend about how she felt for nobody else but herself man.

You didn't win anything. And she didn't win anything. But she was still playing the rejection(dumpee)/guilt(dumper) game, which you refused to be a part of.

You did what you wanted to do, and that's what counted.
 

RobLB

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Originally posted by TheTrimReaper
You didn't win anything. And she didn't win anything.
I don't know, I think I am winning something,...MY LIFE BACK!!!

Slowly but surely I am beginning to enjoy life again. I wouldn't say I'm 100% but close to it...
 

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I wouldn't be surprised if she told your friend all those things because you were ignoring her.
 
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