"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Saw my exgirlfriend with another man tonight.

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im crying like a baby because i want her back

I shouldnt have feelings for her. I shouldnt care that she is with another guy. I shouldnt care that she dumped me when I had other women. I shouldnt care because we already had sex. I shouldnt care because I moved on two months ago. I shouldnt care-----but i do.

I care because she threatened my manhood when we were dating. (She is a independent-power woman with her own business.) I care because she made me feel like a weakling and rubbed it in my face. I care because I let her walk over me. I didnt trust her because men were always calling her when we went out. She was always flirting with men when in my presense. She did it on prupose to test my manhood.I cheated with other girls because it was my way of upmanship on her. To show her that i was desired by other women. It made me jealous as hell. When i was making love to her I couldnt stand the thought of another man being with her. In essence she became the challenge. I became the female. At one point she asked me to be her assistant...I wanted to laugh at her. But I agreed to it...because I wanted to help her with her business. But i realized she saw me as a wimp instead. She wanted a boss and I didnt provide that because I thought she was looking for someone to help her. The mind games do have an effect on you. She did a number on me and screwed me up. She ate my balls for breakfast and spit them out.

I want to take a baseball bat to her car when I see her. I want to beat up her boyfriend to prove my strength. I want to hit her and knock her down to show her who the boss is. You want to know why? BECAUSE IM A MAN not some second rate chump! I dont like being treated like a wimp. She saw me as a wimp. When she is with her man and he has his arm around her...i want to cringe. I know im more manly than he is.

Steve.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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rutgersman said:
When she is with her man and he has his arm around her...i want to cringe. I know im more manly than he is.

Steve.
You are obviously NOT or you would be out living your life instead of lamenting over some stupid power hungry biatch that you used to play mind games with. Get over it and move on with your life.
 

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rutgersman said:
She ate my balls for breakfast and spit them out.
Well, You're a clown so did she mention whether or not they tasted funny?

I want to take a baseball bat to her car when I see her. I want to beat up her boyfriend to prove my strength. I want to hit her and knock her down to show her who the boss is. You want to know why? BECAUSE IM A MAN not some second rate chump! I dont like being treated like a wimp. She saw me as a wimp. When she is with her man and he has his arm around her...i want to cringe. I know im more manly than he is.

Steve.
JESUSTHEFVCKBASTARDCHRIST. You're a man who wants to beat the sh!t out of a woman? Wow. She treats you like a wimp because you act like a needy b!tch for her. You whine and pine over this girl as if she's the last one. You need a tampon to soak up all of the tears.

You need a dose of man reality. Brother, I'm your huckleberry . . .
 

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rutgersman said:
I shouldnt have feelings for her. I shouldnt care that she is with another guy. I shouldnt care that she dumped me when I had other women. I shouldnt care because we already had sex. I shouldnt care because I moved on two months ago. I shouldnt care-----but i do.

I care because she threatened my manhood when we were dating. (She is a independent-power woman with her own business.) I care because she made me feel like a weakling and rubbed it in my face. I care because I let her walk over me. I didnt trust her because men were always calling her when we went out. She was always flirting with men when in my presense. She did it on prupose to test my manhood.I cheated with other girls because it was my way of upmanship on her. To show her that i was desired by other women. It made me jealous as hell. When i was making love to her I couldnt stand the thought of another man being with her. In essence she became the challenge. I became the female. At one point she asked me to be her assistant...I wanted to laugh at her. But I agreed to it...because I wanted to help her with her business. But i realized she saw me as a wimp instead. She wanted a boss and I didnt provide that because I thought she was looking for someone to help her. The mind games do have an effect on you. She did a number on me and screwed me up. She ate my balls for breakfast and spit them out.

I want to take a baseball bat to her car when I see her. I want to beat up her boyfriend to prove my strength. I want to hit her and knock her down to show her who the boss is. You want to know why? BECAUSE IM A MAN not some second rate chump! I dont like being treated like a wimp. She saw me as a wimp. When she is with her man and he has his arm around her...i want to cringe. I know im more manly than he is.

Steve.

if you are "A MAN" then I am Chuck Norris.
 

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wh yare you guys so hostile in here?

Im ranting and all you guys do is bust my balls and dont offer support. You just laugh at me and make raw comments. Where is the intellience? lets skip the manily machoness in here.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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RUTGERS, there are 3 pages of responses here of guy's offering you some pretty solid advice (including my own) and all you do is insist on taking everything personally rather than objectively, which leads me to believe that you're more intereested in crowing atop your own pile of sh!t than seeking or accepting the observations of others. I wanted to give you the benefit of the doubt, particularly considering your own emotional state, but all you're doing is taking the conversation to ridiculous extremes, and now it seems this is more to bait others than actually further your understanding. This is the mental pattern and behavior I'd expect of a teenage boy, not a Mature Man, and leaves your actual age suspect.

Thread closed (regretably).
 
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