"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Saw my ex at college.

-Gripz-

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So I just started back at college yesterday and while I was chilling out in the lounge, I hear two girls calling my name. Lo and behold its my ex and her (very hot) cousin. My ex runs up to me as I was sitting and nearly chokes me to death as she was hugging me so I told her to stop because I couldn't breath. After that, we start talking and she keeps complimenting me on how I'm dressed and my haircut and she can't seem to keep her eyes off of me. Since we broke up I got into bodybuilding also so I definitely look better than before. Also her hot cousin couldn't stop looking either, I would most definitely like to get her number. :yes:

But anyway, we talked for about an hour until their next class and as they were leaving my ex hugs me again and her cousin gives me a seductive look and goes "see you tomorrow". Sh!t I wish I met her cousin first, because my ex is a 6 at best. Looks like I'll be seeing them often since we're going to the same college now. Any of you run into an ex, later on? How did it go for you?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Gambler

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-Gripz- said:
So I just started back at college yesterday and while I was chilling out in the lounge, I hear two girls calling my name. Lo and behold its my ex and her (very hot) cousin. My ex runs up to me as I was sitting and nearly chokes me to death as she was hugging me so I told her to stop because I couldn't breath. After that, we start talking and she keeps complimenting me on how I'm dressed and my haircut and she can't seem to keep her eyes off of me. Since we broke up I got into bodybuilding also so I definitely look better than before. Also her hot cousin couldn't stop looking either, I would most definitely like to get her number. :yes:

But anyway, we talked for about an hour until their next class and as they were leaving my ex hugs me again and her cousin gives me a seductive look and goes "see you tomorrow". Sh!t I wish I met her cousin first, because my ex is a 6 at best. Looks like I'll be seeing them often since we're going to the same college now. Any of you run into an ex, later on? How did it go for you?
If you have improved yourself since the last time you saw her, you got the EXPECTED result.... Congratulations! Regardless of what else happens, you've gotta be feeling pretty good, right?

She could not control herself... You are in the driver's seat now... Just remember that all of you are about to meet a ton of new people, and I would just kinda roll with things loosely for a while until I have a chance to eyeball who else is in the neighborhood.

The Gambler
 
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