"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Saw my ex at college.

-Gripz-

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So I just started back at college yesterday and while I was chilling out in the lounge, I hear two girls calling my name. Lo and behold its my ex and her (very hot) cousin. My ex runs up to me as I was sitting and nearly chokes me to death as she was hugging me so I told her to stop because I couldn't breath. After that, we start talking and she keeps complimenting me on how I'm dressed and my haircut and she can't seem to keep her eyes off of me. Since we broke up I got into bodybuilding also so I definitely look better than before. Also her hot cousin couldn't stop looking either, I would most definitely like to get her number. :yes:

But anyway, we talked for about an hour until their next class and as they were leaving my ex hugs me again and her cousin gives me a seductive look and goes "see you tomorrow". Sh!t I wish I met her cousin first, because my ex is a 6 at best. Looks like I'll be seeing them often since we're going to the same college now. Any of you run into an ex, later on? How did it go for you?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Gambler

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-Gripz- said:
So I just started back at college yesterday and while I was chilling out in the lounge, I hear two girls calling my name. Lo and behold its my ex and her (very hot) cousin. My ex runs up to me as I was sitting and nearly chokes me to death as she was hugging me so I told her to stop because I couldn't breath. After that, we start talking and she keeps complimenting me on how I'm dressed and my haircut and she can't seem to keep her eyes off of me. Since we broke up I got into bodybuilding also so I definitely look better than before. Also her hot cousin couldn't stop looking either, I would most definitely like to get her number. :yes:

But anyway, we talked for about an hour until their next class and as they were leaving my ex hugs me again and her cousin gives me a seductive look and goes "see you tomorrow". Sh!t I wish I met her cousin first, because my ex is a 6 at best. Looks like I'll be seeing them often since we're going to the same college now. Any of you run into an ex, later on? How did it go for you?
If you have improved yourself since the last time you saw her, you got the EXPECTED result.... Congratulations! Regardless of what else happens, you've gotta be feeling pretty good, right?

She could not control herself... You are in the driver's seat now... Just remember that all of you are about to meet a ton of new people, and I would just kinda roll with things loosely for a while until I have a chance to eyeball who else is in the neighborhood.

The Gambler
 
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