"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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savin it for marriage

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Originally posted by mrRuckus
no sex before marriage is just as arbitrary as various religious laws about eating pigs or cows.

they're just "best practices" from back in the day that were made sinful as a means of social control...
According to the Old Testament it was common practice for a man to have multiple wives (if he could afford it) and the guy could even knock it out with his female servants. Sarah was even cool with Abraham getting after it with their servant so they could have a son. Define adultery in this instance.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You can justify whatever the f*ck you want with the Bible.

I don't understand people who believe that sex is something really special. I got a newsflash - it's not.
 

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Originally posted by mrRuckus
you can be a christian and still think the bible is made up and stupid.

p.s.

Proverbs

23:13 Withhold not correction from the child: for if thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die.

23:14 Thou shalt beat him with the rod, and shalt deliver his soul from hell.

real christians beat their children with rods. Disfigurement is ok! He'll thank you for it in heaven...
No, you can claim to be a Christian and not believe the Bible, but you cannot be a true Christian (and what would be the point of claiming but not believing anyway).

Also, that proverb is talking about loving discipline of a child, not just beating them because you want to.
 

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"Don't forget how much I love you Timmy, and be sure to tell the nice ER doctor that you fell of the swing OK?"
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Do you think she would 'save herself for marriage' if she was dating, let's say, Brad Pitt?
 

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well the Bible says that God forgives all sins, im not worried about going to hell because he forgives our sins, but i would feel guilty because its says that if you really do believe then you would TRY and if i did try, i could wait, but i dont necesarily want to-
 
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