"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So, being the AFC and a little girl that I am I got frustrated and I messaged her last night while drunk, with friends, confessing that I like her...

Here's the background story.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=207457

Her reply was.. I don't know.. I dont' know you much
and I told her it's ok I'm not asking u to be my girl right now but I'm just letting her know that I'm interested
Her reply was a short "thank you". And we didn't talk again after that.

This morning when I woke up at 5 AM I realized how ****ed I was.... so I left her another message saying that I was drunk and I was sorry and I will never message her like that again.

AND THEN...

She laughs and tells me that I'm cute and she started to message me like crazy like she has never done before. she was teasing and flirting, she was asking me who I was drinking with and i told her with girls (I was chilling with 4 of them) and she replied by saying "I knew you were with girls!!"

She also asked me if I sent that message to any girl besides her and I replied "..." but not a definite answer LOL
Overall, she has never messaged me like that ever! fast and quick thorough replies with a lot of teasing and flirting.

am I saved or am I still ****ed?
What is she thinking?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Time will tell.

First I order you to chill the fvck out and dont worry about things like this. Its happened - if she dips out then she does but thats not the end of the world.

Ask her out - take her out, take her home, nail her.
 
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Purefilth said:
Time will tell.

First I order you to chill the fvck out and dont worry about things like this. Its happened - if she dips out then she does but thats not the end of the world.

Ask her out - take her out, take her home, nail her.
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Thanks... I know. I realized that I'm really a lot calmer now and I've been busy working this monring without thinking about her much and it makes me really happy.

About nailing her haha read my background thread. she's the girl who would give me no signs of interest whatsoever but she ****s me all the time.
 
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Hey man - you know how we get oneitis? By constantly analyzing her behavior and situations.

Like filth says, just chill :)
 
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TheCWord said:
Hey man - you know how we get oneitis? By constantly analyzing her behavior and situations.
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Too late. Hanging with 4 girls and he called a girl that is playing him to profess his love. Balls ---> purse.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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LorenzoVonM said:
Too late. Hanging with 4 girls and he called a girl that is playing him to profess his love. Balls ---> purse.
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If getting ****ed by me everytime we meet is playing me, then I am getting sooooo played lol have fun jerking off tonight
 
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If getting ****ed by me everytime we meet is playing me, then I am getting sooooo played lol have fun jerking off tonight
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Hey tdot - play nice. You may be hearing things you don't want to hear, but that's why you come here - to improve. You're getting laid, yes, but everybody on this forum knows you've given up all power in this relationship and we all have a pretty good idea of how this ends for you.

When that happens, learn from your mistakes and move on. Until then, don't get act all defensive when you start a thread like this.
 
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TheCWord said:
Hey tdot - play nice. You may be hearing things you don't want to hear, but that's why you come here - to improve. You're getting laid, yes, but everybody on this forum knows you've given up all power in this relationship and we all have a pretty good idea of how this ends for you.

When that happens, learn from your mistakes and move on. Until then, don't get act all defensive when you start a thread like this.
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Well he seems to have sacrificed his power and character in exchange for vaginal access and bragging rights on a forum where most people who can and will help dont give a shiit because theyre getting laid too.:rock:


The only ones who care deeply about getting laid are the ones who arent.
 
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TheCWord said:
Hey tdot - play nice. You may be hearing things you don't want to hear, but that's why you come here - to improve. You're getting laid, yes, but everybody on this forum knows you've given up all power in this relationship and we all have a pretty good idea of how this ends for you.

When that happens, learn from your mistakes and move on. Until then, don't get act all defensive when you start a thread like this.
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But yea understood, I'll be nice.
Sorry it's just that this ***** just can't get off my ****.
I'll just ignore him.

BTW, quick update
it's official between us now

And I owe it to some of you.
Thanks DJs
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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