“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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tdotseoul

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So, being the AFC and a little girl that I am I got frustrated and I messaged her last night while drunk, with friends, confessing that I like her...

Here's the background story.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=207457

Her reply was.. I don't know.. I dont' know you much
and I told her it's ok I'm not asking u to be my girl right now but I'm just letting her know that I'm interested
Her reply was a short "thank you". And we didn't talk again after that.

This morning when I woke up at 5 AM I realized how ****ed I was.... so I left her another message saying that I was drunk and I was sorry and I will never message her like that again.

AND THEN...

She laughs and tells me that I'm cute and she started to message me like crazy like she has never done before. she was teasing and flirting, she was asking me who I was drinking with and i told her with girls (I was chilling with 4 of them) and she replied by saying "I knew you were with girls!!"

She also asked me if I sent that message to any girl besides her and I replied "..." but not a definite answer LOL
Overall, she has never messaged me like that ever! fast and quick thorough replies with a lot of teasing and flirting.

am I saved or am I still ****ed?
What is she thinking?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Time will tell.

First I order you to chill the fvck out and dont worry about things like this. Its happened - if she dips out then she does but thats not the end of the world.

Ask her out - take her out, take her home, nail her.
 

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Purefilth said:
Time will tell.

First I order you to chill the fvck out and dont worry about things like this. Its happened - if she dips out then she does but thats not the end of the world.

Ask her out - take her out, take her home, nail her.
Thanks... I know. I realized that I'm really a lot calmer now and I've been busy working this monring without thinking about her much and it makes me really happy.

About nailing her haha read my background thread. she's the girl who would give me no signs of interest whatsoever but she ****s me all the time.
 

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Hey man - you know how we get oneitis? By constantly analyzing her behavior and situations.

Like filth says, just chill :)
 

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TheCWord said:
Hey man - you know how we get oneitis? By constantly analyzing her behavior and situations.
Too late. Hanging with 4 girls and he called a girl that is playing him to profess his love. Balls ---> purse.
 

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LorenzoVonM said:
Too late. Hanging with 4 girls and he called a girl that is playing him to profess his love. Balls ---> purse.
If getting ****ed by me everytime we meet is playing me, then I am getting sooooo played lol have fun jerking off tonight
 

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tdotseoul said:
If getting ****ed by me everytime we meet is playing me, then I am getting sooooo played lol have fun jerking off tonight
Hey tdot - play nice. You may be hearing things you don't want to hear, but that's why you come here - to improve. You're getting laid, yes, but everybody on this forum knows you've given up all power in this relationship and we all have a pretty good idea of how this ends for you.

When that happens, learn from your mistakes and move on. Until then, don't get act all defensive when you start a thread like this.
 

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TheCWord said:
Hey tdot - play nice. You may be hearing things you don't want to hear, but that's why you come here - to improve. You're getting laid, yes, but everybody on this forum knows you've given up all power in this relationship and we all have a pretty good idea of how this ends for you.

When that happens, learn from your mistakes and move on. Until then, don't get act all defensive when you start a thread like this.
Well he seems to have sacrificed his power and character in exchange for vaginal access and bragging rights on a forum where most people who can and will help dont give a shiit because theyre getting laid too.:rock:


The only ones who care deeply about getting laid are the ones who arent.
 

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TheCWord said:
Hey tdot - play nice. You may be hearing things you don't want to hear, but that's why you come here - to improve. You're getting laid, yes, but everybody on this forum knows you've given up all power in this relationship and we all have a pretty good idea of how this ends for you.

When that happens, learn from your mistakes and move on. Until then, don't get act all defensive when you start a thread like this.
But yea understood, I'll be nice.
Sorry it's just that this ***** just can't get off my ****.
I'll just ignore him.

BTW, quick update
it's official between us now

And I owe it to some of you.
Thanks DJs
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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