VikingKing
Banned
So right now I'm staying at this... kind of a sober living place.
Any ways there is this kid who is 23. He approached me because he saw my marines running suit jacket. He said he's been wanting to join the marines, but just needs to get his hsed, and he seems very serious about joining and wants to go career. I think thats a great decision, the benefits are great if you do that
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Any ways, we were talking today about stuff. I mentioned about some of my problems in life, and he mentioned his gf just broke up with him...
So he basically spilled the beans. Told me everything.
This girl is being real sick in the head. Trying to friendzone him, he was over there a couple weekends ago and was wearing a wifebeater, and she kept pulling it up, and he asked why, she said because thats just for me to see. He told me this last.
I told him if a girl was ever emotionally, sexually, or physically abused to never take her serious. he said she had all of those things happen.:nono:
I explained to him how it works. Men value love, women love value and all the basic things like that, including women want men that other women want, and the theory behind it all.
I told him to stop analyzing what shes thinking, she doesnt think like you she is emotionally driven thats why it makes no sense. He says thats exactly what I've been doing, I said I know man.
This girl is being real fvcking sick. She is fvcking with his head, emotions, and doesn't give a fvck about this dude at all. I told him that also. How she wants a security net while she finds another guy.
At first he said "I'm 100% sure she's not seeing anyone else." :nono:
After I explained everything to him, I said man I wouldn't be surprised if she cheated on you before, and is at the very least seeing some one, but probably fvcking them.
Now here is where I saw the actual unplug happen. I said look man a woman who is in love with you, will move mountains for you. But a woman can fall out of love with you like *snaps fingers* that. here was the unplug moment. He responded with "But thats not real love"... I said "but thats life, and thats how women are"
She was leading him on so aggressively its sickening, women like this should be put down like a rapid dog, or a tattoo on their forehead "only good for fvcking, do not trust"
He obviously had no idea how fvcked up women usually are, and how far they will take it (pretty much as far as you let them, even if it ends you"
I told him you have to choices. 1. disappear (best choice) 2. text her and say "you know, i've been thinking about this and your probably right we should end this, I wasn't really happy in the relationship and I realize that now." and then disappear.
His hamster has been on over drive for a while I think.
I live in the same building, and told him if he needs to talk pull me aside anytime.
You new guys need to realize women can and will be real sick and suck your soul out slowly. It won't be obvious to the untrained eye.
In the end he said "so women are shallow and selfish." me "fvcked up huh?" :yes:
The good thing is he is already working towards his goals, going to get hi hsed, and then on to the corps, which i told him what to expect and how it works. He just needed a reality check about his ex. I told him it will take time to heal, but that wont even start until you go nc.
Any ways there is this kid who is 23. He approached me because he saw my marines running suit jacket. He said he's been wanting to join the marines, but just needs to get his hsed, and he seems very serious about joining and wants to go career. I think thats a great decision, the benefits are great if you do that
.Any ways, we were talking today about stuff. I mentioned about some of my problems in life, and he mentioned his gf just broke up with him...
So he basically spilled the beans. Told me everything.
This girl is being real sick in the head. Trying to friendzone him, he was over there a couple weekends ago and was wearing a wifebeater, and she kept pulling it up, and he asked why, she said because thats just for me to see. He told me this last.
I told him if a girl was ever emotionally, sexually, or physically abused to never take her serious. he said she had all of those things happen.:nono:
I explained to him how it works. Men value love, women love value and all the basic things like that, including women want men that other women want, and the theory behind it all.
I told him to stop analyzing what shes thinking, she doesnt think like you she is emotionally driven thats why it makes no sense. He says thats exactly what I've been doing, I said I know man.
This girl is being real fvcking sick. She is fvcking with his head, emotions, and doesn't give a fvck about this dude at all. I told him that also. How she wants a security net while she finds another guy.
At first he said "I'm 100% sure she's not seeing anyone else." :nono:
After I explained everything to him, I said man I wouldn't be surprised if she cheated on you before, and is at the very least seeing some one, but probably fvcking them.
Now here is where I saw the actual unplug happen. I said look man a woman who is in love with you, will move mountains for you. But a woman can fall out of love with you like *snaps fingers* that. here was the unplug moment. He responded with "But thats not real love"... I said "but thats life, and thats how women are"
She was leading him on so aggressively its sickening, women like this should be put down like a rapid dog, or a tattoo on their forehead "only good for fvcking, do not trust"
He obviously had no idea how fvcked up women usually are, and how far they will take it (pretty much as far as you let them, even if it ends you"
I told him you have to choices. 1. disappear (best choice) 2. text her and say "you know, i've been thinking about this and your probably right we should end this, I wasn't really happy in the relationship and I realize that now." and then disappear.
His hamster has been on over drive for a while I think.
I live in the same building, and told him if he needs to talk pull me aside anytime.
You new guys need to realize women can and will be real sick and suck your soul out slowly. It won't be obvious to the untrained eye.
In the end he said "so women are shallow and selfish." me "fvcked up huh?"
:yes:The good thing is he is already working towards his goals, going to get hi hsed, and then on to the corps, which i told him what to expect and how it works. He just needed a reality check about his ex. I told him it will take time to heal, but that wont even start until you go nc.
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