Save me SS: What can I do in my 20s to make up for a horrendous college experience?

[Solomon]

You didn't miss anything. High school was awkward and terrible for more people than not. I enjoy being thirty more than I did partying playing in bands in my early twenties. Work on your health and career now, that's my advice!

This but OP won't listen

If I was 23 again, you're not too old to get into the college scene meaning what? going to college bars and frat parties

Hell I was still going to frat parties at 30 because I looked 25 was making out with hot 18 year olds

anything is possible OP

 

[RangerMIke]

Hey mate, why it's the best decision in your life, and what kind of phenomenal results are you talking about? Cheers.

Helps you tone your core, and builds flexibility, and balance. Practice also helps you with chaotic emotional BS and teaches you to let go of expectations, and focus on the present. I know it sounds like horse sh!t... That is what I thought about all the talk about 'being centered' and "present' but practice teaches you to focus on what you are doing, and it will translate into other aspects of your life.

When I started I had the flexibility of a board. Now I'm much better, yoga trains your body to do things you didn't think was possible. Now I can walk on my hands, do back flips.... and I'm 50. I'm in better shape than most 20 something dudes.

It is a great supplement to weight training or anything else you do.

 

[drakeisfire]

@drakeisfire What are you passionate about? Do you align with any causes you really care about... Politics? Environment? Healthy Eating? Art? Cosplay? I'm not judging.... sh!t anything.... Then seek out groups that share your passion and get involved. Basically what you should have done in college.... college is filled with organizations you can get involved with an this is how you build a social circle. Me.... I'm concerned with environmental issues, green space renewal in cities, job training in secondary education, and biking ... and I works with 4 groups that are involved in these. But you do it to get involved, so you have to be interested in hat you are doing... take a leadership role in these groups and the chicks will come.

Also, take up yoga. Best decision of my life doing that. I've been practicing for 3 years now and the results are phenomenal. Plus the chicks are great.

Honestly man, I am passionate about the party scene. It is my dream to be that guy who is involved in it and the alcohol that comes with it. I want to bartend at a nightclub while also having a full time job but do not know how to make it happen.

 

[Poonani Maker]

Read old authors pre-1950s authors. The old world was the correct world. Current literature is very misleading about how to think common sense. Old world, be a blast from the past, a time capsule to set yourself apart from the horde of other aimless non-grounded dudes. You MUST differentiate. Don't be the herd. A woman needs to fall onto you and stick by your side no matter what. She needs to worship you. She needs to be devout to you. You need to be her world. You can't do that being like every other hot "stud." You must differentiate to claim the "one."