"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sauna Training

noctorious

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Over the past year or so, I've been going to the gym about three/four days a week weightlifting and such.

Alongside this, I've been going to the gym's sauna. Great for your health and mental clarity.

During this time, I've just started talking to people. Turns out it isn't that scary. Most people reciprocate and chat back. Old, young, men, women etc - all seem fairly talkative. It makes the time go quicker.

I suppose being dressed down to shorts and bathing suits sweating it out strips down any anxiety. It has for me at least.

Anyone else sauna regularly? I do it every day (if it's not broken that is).

Writing out this post has killed half my anxiety about cold approaching. I initiate 95% of conversations in the sauna.....guess I just need to take that mentality to the streets.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Stanley

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Totally man, you are putting yourself in what was once an uncomfortable situation through exposure. I work out at home so my sauna is a shower, but when I went to the gym dudes were always pretty down to chat.
 
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