"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mariosex

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i have 3 girls are coming over for a sauna/swim, they live just down the road, im 17, the girls are 15,16,17.

15:HB4
16:HB7
17:HB8

(realise hb7 and hb8 are sisters lol)

the HB4 and HB7 year olds dig me quite alot but im really looking for the 17 year old

the sisters seem to be pretty open around each other (not sexually really).

this is the 4th time the girls have come over for a sauna/swim in the past 6 days (too much?)

last time in the sauna all the girls were rubbing ice over me and stuff like that (hb4 and hb7 mostly)

what im asking is how can i create more interest for this HB8 in me?

also is it stupid to go for some 3/4sum action :p?

any feedback/opinions are more than welcome..
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'll tell you what my father told me...
"15 will get ya 20." but I'm not sure of the laws in your country... hmmm... one word.... Exctasy??

just kidding... but not really.
Try for three, and you may end up with none, try for one you may end up with one, or more... If you're really interested in the one girl, focus your attention, not obsessively, of course, towards her... offer her a back rub, or something to get you two more personal with each other... as their getting ready to leave, ask her if she would like to come over the next day alone... use your imagination with exact wording....
 

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Originally posted by mattathensga
use your imagination with exact wording....
elaborate please..

other than that this stuff is really good thanks, forgot about the law hahaha, guess the poor hb3 will just have to sit and watch :p

any other ideas?

especially ideas to solve the arkward silences..
 

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Originally posted by mariosex
what im asking is how can i create more interest for this HB8 in me?
Here's a little story for you. Few years back, when I was at uni, I had an occasional arrangement with HB5. We'd sleep together when other options failed. One day her little sister came to visit - HB9ish I'd say. Rarely have I seen such a fine specimen of a woman.

HB5 was busy that night so she asked me to take HB9ish out and show her a good time. I took her out clubbing, we danced and had a good time.

Long story short, when we rolled home at about 4am she said to me, "normally I would've fycked you - you're just my type of guy - but I couldn't do anyone my sister had done, it'd just be weird".

In retrospect I probably could've talked her round but the point is I was always swimming against the tide with the sister thing. Flirting with the sister is fine, the impression that you could be interested in her works wonders. Actually doing the deed can change her view of you completely.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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