"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hey, i'm 15 and go to High School.

I've been lurking in the forums a long time and reading heaps of articles, but I've never actually tried to pick up or anything; yet.

I guess thats why I still havent had a gf, but now its time for me to change, which is why I WILL complete the boot camp.

Starting today;
9.38PM, Tuesday the 19th of July 2005, I will be a new man.

I'm going to read up on the week 1 articles now and will post my results as I go.

:cool:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Here I am one hour later, I've read all the articles from week 1.

Starting tomorrow, I WILL say hi to 50 people and will not let anyone hold eye contact longer then me.

On all school days, I WILL do cardio in the morning when I wake up.

My plan for tommorow is:

6.30 - Wake up
6.45 - Go for a run/skip
7.30 - Have a shower
7.50 - Walk the dog
8.05 - Have breakfast
8.20 - Leave for school

I'll be sure to keep track of my progress and will monitor it from this journal.

Time to go to sleep if I wanna get up at 6.30AM! :)
 

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Nice. Don't flake out and you will be better for it.
 

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Good luck, I'm doing the boot camp as well. Don't flake out!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I didnt run this morning because it was too dark and cold, but when daylight savings come about i'll run more often in the morning.

Its not like I dont do any excercise, I have football 3 times a week and gym 2 twice a week.

Once footy season is over in 5 weeks, i'll be going to the gym more often and working out more intensely.

So far today I only went to school and the park with my dog.

I managed my first hi today when I was going home to an alright looking lady.

Its not as hard as I though :)

Hi's: 1/50 :D
 

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I only went to school and the gym today so I didnt get a chance to say hi, but I did to someone I'd never seen at school when I was walking to class, so i'll count that as 1.

Hi's: 2/50

I've noticed that when you keep looking people in the eye, sometimes they also keep looking back.

Eg. Did this with a 9/10 girl I usually hardly ever talk to and had a lil talk with her because I didnt look away.

Anyway, I'm going to try to get some more hi's tomorrow.

Goodnight
 

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I havent completed the 50 hi's because I just havnt had time, so I'm going to incorporate them into week 2's task.

Btw, my game is improving and i'm definately more relaxed with talking to HB's now :)

Gonna read week 2 now
 
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