I like this guy a lot. I watched some of his infield approaches and he's who I want to become in terms of confidence in interacting with girls. I watched one of his speeches and he said the key was being genuinely curious in a girl. I'd love to do that but going right off the bat and complimenting girls seems unusual in America. Girls here are just really *****y in my experience if you do that, and start asking about their hobbies and ****. Do you think his advice is applicable to high school/ college girls or only mature girls?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Sasha pua
- Thread starter asianbboy
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
No ****. You look needy as hell. You need to polarize, and show her your interests. Bring her into your world, do not try to enter into hers right off the bat. If you just ask her questions/enter her world etc. it just shows that you're desperate and wont reject anyone with a pretty face.asianbboy said:
So, do you agree with being "direct"? That's not what it sounds like you're advocating.
Is there any truth in this video? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A2y45z5tDFo
I agree with him though. Going indirect, talking about bull**** when I really just want to bang -> feels weird.
Is there any truth in this video? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A2y45z5tDFo
I agree with him though. Going indirect, talking about bull**** when I really just want to bang -> feels weird.
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
Sasha is great. I didn't watch that video, but in general he has a lot of energy and is likeable. If you approach as many girls as he has, your questions will be answered by experience.
I have to say that I randomly came across Sasha's youtube videos only two nights ago. The one that caught my attention the most were the Epic Speech on Direct approaching(posted above) and his guest speech at Purdue on Social Dynamics.
I started out daygaming right after high school since I wasn't able to drink legally at bars/clubs and had a disinterest in those environments (night game) anyways. My first real experience was going SOLO into the city and experimenting on different girls using direct and indirect cold approaches. I continued going out and daygaming in various venues without ever having seen his or any videos on the stuff only things I read here. Field experience alone taught me when to go direct, indirect, back off, not approach, approach, when to use the situation at hand as a tool or ignore the situation at hand and go direct.
After seeing his approach videos and hearing him talk he is extremely on point with how I've carried myself. I can literally go up to just about anybody and talk about whatever springs to mind. Rejections don't bug me at all and like he said I wish I had this skillset 10 years ago. You do feel great despite rejections because you feel ALIVE. No one at this point can tell me they've got some method to sell to me because I see all of that as BS. I approach people left and right. Plenty of people approach me at random and open me now whenever I'm out and about or at a bar. It's no surprise that my new job is in public affairs but I don't tell these people that on the streets!
I started out daygaming right after high school since I wasn't able to drink legally at bars/clubs and had a disinterest in those environments (night game) anyways. My first real experience was going SOLO into the city and experimenting on different girls using direct and indirect cold approaches. I continued going out and daygaming in various venues without ever having seen his or any videos on the stuff only things I read here. Field experience alone taught me when to go direct, indirect, back off, not approach, approach, when to use the situation at hand as a tool or ignore the situation at hand and go direct.
After seeing his approach videos and hearing him talk he is extremely on point with how I've carried myself. I can literally go up to just about anybody and talk about whatever springs to mind. Rejections don't bug me at all and like he said I wish I had this skillset 10 years ago. You do feel great despite rejections because you feel ALIVE. No one at this point can tell me they've got some method to sell to me because I see all of that as BS. I approach people left and right. Plenty of people approach me at random and open me now whenever I'm out and about or at a bar. It's no surprise that my new job is in public affairs but I don't tell these people that on the streets!
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Thanks! 
That's far from the truth brother. Women are tired of the bull**** - Nothing creates a "movie moment" EXACTLY like women crave - than a man that has the balls to approach her and just be authentic. NOTHING.
Wanted to **** a girl is not low value. Being needy and desperate is.... Needing a girls' validation is. But if you show a girl you are attracted to her, want to **** her, and you're OK with it (and she really feels you're ok with it) ---- NOTHING shows higher value than this.
Less than 1% of guys are at this level of realisation. I'm actually only getting there now myself haha, if we're being honest.
Your message only shows that you've bought in to the PUA marketing machine... but guess what - same as the societal machine all around us - it's bull**** and is there to make money - not get people laid.
Eventually, you'll see that. But it just takes time.
We're all bro's, and I love you just the same. (No homo)
Sasha
p.s glad a couple of the guys in here get what I'm about and have seen the light.... it's a slow journey waking people up but glad to have you guys on side
That's far from the truth brother. Women are tired of the bull**** - Nothing creates a "movie moment" EXACTLY like women crave - than a man that has the balls to approach her and just be authentic. NOTHING.
Wanted to **** a girl is not low value. Being needy and desperate is.... Needing a girls' validation is. But if you show a girl you are attracted to her, want to **** her, and you're OK with it (and she really feels you're ok with it) ---- NOTHING shows higher value than this.
Less than 1% of guys are at this level of realisation. I'm actually only getting there now myself haha, if we're being honest.
Your message only shows that you've bought in to the PUA marketing machine... but guess what - same as the societal machine all around us - it's bull**** and is there to make money - not get people laid.
Eventually, you'll see that. But it just takes time.
We're all bro's, and I love you just the same. (No homo)
Sasha
p.s glad a couple of the guys in here get what I'm about and have seen the light.... it's a slow journey waking people up but glad to have you guys on side
AlexLefty said:
Skyline
Master Don Juan
I disagree. Asking questions and relating or challenging her answers is the way to go. Shes being interviewed for YOUR world. Why should you "qualify" yourself to her? If you just talk about yourself, that smells of desperation. Along with failure of not knowing how to talk to a girl.AlexLefty said:
DanZy
Master Don Juan
I agree. Frayzer you only seem to regurgitate the Don Juan Bible, surely there's more to you?Watawata said:
Skyline
Master Don Juan
I don't appreciate the over exaggeration and the sheer irrelevance to the OP's topic. I don't post many field reports because I don't post anything I haven't already encountered or have already learned from. If I do a field report it is for me in the attempt to learn a new technique or mindset, not for anyone else. I joined this forum for MY self improvement. However I will ask for advice, like the Bar FR I did, I was seeking Night Club advice for the future. Whether you believe my words of wisdom or not is up to you, I'm not stopping you from thinking.Watawata said:
In my earlier days here yes. But now I only regulate on what I agree on and what actually works. Meaning I use a bit of my own style, I guide my life not some words on the internet. I may be inspired by them but they will not take over my life. Like I said, believe me or not it's up to you. It really seems I struck a nerve between the two of you for some reason, so let's hope this doesn't get out of hand. I'm willing to let your ill manners slip for now.DanZy said:
Next time, give your opinion on why you don't agree with my statements. It's better to challenge ones mindset rather than attack the individual personally.
To make this post relevant to the OP, you should not have to qualify yourself to a women ever. You can also pretty much say anything to any girl so long as you have the confidence and charisma to back it up.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
DanZy
Master Don Juan
Mate I've got no problem with you, it's just that everything you say seems to be something you've read elsewhere.
You're taking this too seriously
You're taking this too seriously