Thomas94305
Senior Don Juan
Fellow DJs... Does true sarging work with women over 30? I'm considering sarging in the sense of going to a club or whatever, talking with different women, walking away with numbers, etc. An alternative is knowing women for an extended period of time in my social circle, and developing from there; I'm excluding that from sarging for this thread.
I've been applying the DJ stuff for the past year. When I put my mind to it, I can get about a phone number a week. I'll often go salsa dancing to meet new women, sometimes I'll meet new women at a coffee shop I frequent. I'm finding it's very easy to get from a hello to a phone number/email. It's very hard to get from contact info to actual dating; even just a date or two to know a little better. Whether or not she's physically attractive doesn't seem to affect results much.
However, I've known people from social networks for a long time. And, I've had some very strong romantic attachments grow out of that. And, I can date very attractive women that way.
I know the obvious answer is to go for the social network, since it works. But, we're talking about picking from a very limited pool of women and playing a waiting game, whereas sarging opens up hundreds or more women to me. The limited selection of the social network often leads to one-itus, and being alone for extended periods waiting for the next one.
What's your experiences on sarging with women over 30? Has it worked for you, and if so, what are the key things? Is there a bigger burden of trust here given the age, and how does one navigate that? Are there other sticky issues to know about? The 5 minute conversation, then asking for contact info doesn't get me to actual dating very often, even though that's recommended by Deangelo, etc. What about you?
I've been applying the DJ stuff for the past year. When I put my mind to it, I can get about a phone number a week. I'll often go salsa dancing to meet new women, sometimes I'll meet new women at a coffee shop I frequent. I'm finding it's very easy to get from a hello to a phone number/email. It's very hard to get from contact info to actual dating; even just a date or two to know a little better. Whether or not she's physically attractive doesn't seem to affect results much.
However, I've known people from social networks for a long time. And, I've had some very strong romantic attachments grow out of that. And, I can date very attractive women that way.
I know the obvious answer is to go for the social network, since it works. But, we're talking about picking from a very limited pool of women and playing a waiting game, whereas sarging opens up hundreds or more women to me. The limited selection of the social network often leads to one-itus, and being alone for extended periods waiting for the next one.
What's your experiences on sarging with women over 30? Has it worked for you, and if so, what are the key things? Is there a bigger burden of trust here given the age, and how does one navigate that? Are there other sticky issues to know about? The 5 minute conversation, then asking for contact info doesn't get me to actual dating very often, even though that's recommended by Deangelo, etc. What about you?