“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Sarging Wearing a Hat ? To Hide Balding

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DOes anyone DO this ? Also do you think it is a good idea ? I mean eventually you have to show your hair that your bald ?



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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Own up to it, man. Women do actually dig honesty when it comes to your hairline...MUCH more than hiding it, masking it, and generally conveying that you're uncomfortable with who and what you are.

BTW I've got thinning hair and a receding hairline up top. I'm also 23.
 

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You know how you can ALWAYS tell when someone is doing something to try to cover up a receeding hairline? (wearing a hat, a wig, has had plugs, combover etc etc...)... Well, you're not special. EVERYONE is able to tell when someone is trying to cover up their baldness :)

Just go with it. Cut your hair short. If a not-ideal physical trait doesn't bother you, it almost certainly won't bother anyone else.... Unless that physical trait happens to be an appaling odor, or tentacles or something.
 

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K so when I was younger I was balding.. BADLY. Like in grade 9 people were commenting on it. I used to wear a hat and **** like that. Ok now if you realize its just in your own head then you will be ok I would GUESS. Personally I did a cancer fundraiser and shaved my head. SO MANY girls told me it looked great so I decided to keep it and I haven't worried about it once since then. There is ofcourse the initial you getting checked out less because women seem to check bald guys out less. But then its also way easier to pick up because your confidence goes up. Also it could have been that since I was not used to being bald completyely that I was getting checked out less. Maybe something about the way I carried myself at the time. But I get checked out lots now that I am used to it so don't worry about that. ANYWAYS you should really try cutting your hair off its actually awesome and it completely kills that whole insecurity you have. Trust me I know how that sucks man. Shave that ****. Either way if you do shave it its supposed to come back in thicker anyways but personally I am not going to grow mine back anyways because I love my hair likle this.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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stinkyape said:
You know how you can ALWAYS tell when someone is doing something to try to cover up a receeding hairline? (wearing a hat, a wig, has had plugs, combover etc etc...)... Well, you're not special. EVERYONE is able to tell when someone is trying to cover up their baldness :)
Wrong.

I cover mine with a hairpiece (of the same quality worn by Ben Affleck and other people in the entertainment industry) and the only people who know I wear are the ones who have been told.

Shave it or do something about it.

I shaved mine for years and it's a hell of a lot better than doing the horseshoe thing.

If it isn't too far along you can also use concealers such as Dermmatch. They can be VERY effective, but there is some hassle involved.

Hairpieces ARE an option for people who have enough confidence to pull it off, but only buy from toplace.com or coolpiece.com. If you go this route try the super fine swiss lace. Properly applied it is nearly impossible to detect by sight OR touch. Works for me :)

Oh yea, and I would never get transplants. Good idea in theory, but what if you lose more hair than you expect? It can happen and the results aren't pretty.
 

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Unless you are a teenager, don't try to pull of the baseball hat ,or any kind of hat, in your everyday life. Only sometimes.

I have alot of hair, and when I wear a hat people that don't know me automatically asume that I am hiding something, that I am balding,etc.

People that know me, when I wear a hat, think I either shaved my head, got a bad hair cut, or trying to hide something.
 

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ive got probably 50-ish New Era caps that I'll wear whenever the mood strikes if they go with the sneakers or jacket/shirt im wearing, not to cover balding though. i keep my hair buzzed or shaved, girls like to rub it and touch it pretty much anywhere clubs, in the car, blah blah

hmm i wonder if theres a way to make girls like to rub and touch my penis pretty much anywhere too....:confused:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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hmm i wonder if theres a way to make girls like to rub and touch my penis pretty much anywhere too....:confused:
Ask her if she's a nurse. If she replies with either "yes" or "why?" simply tell her that a snake bit you on the penis and you need a nurse to suck out the poison.

If that doesn't work buy her a pair of shoes. That always works.
 

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Wrong.

I cover mine with a hairpiece (of the same quality worn by Ben Affleck and other people in the entertainment industry) and the only people who know I wear are the ones who have been told.
If you've found something that actually looks natural, then good for you. It is entirely possible that people are too polite to say anything, though.

A former employer wore a hairpiece. One day he confided in me that he was actually balding, and wore a wig. I feigned surprise ("Gee, REALLY? It looks so natural!"). Employees had been calling him Mr. Rug (his surname rhymed with rug) behind his back for years. He'd convince himself that it looked natural, because no one had ever pointed out to him how obvious it was he was wearing a wig (because to do so would be rude!).

If/when my hair starts falling out, I'm going with the Bruce Willis. No one ever laughs at Bruce Willis for being bald. Bruce Willis is awesome. However, Bruce Willis with a hairpiece would be tragic.

Actually, part of me is looking forward to male pattern baldness - Think of the money I'll save on hairstylists, and how easy it will be to keep my head at a comfortable temperature (my head is naturally hot all year round - hair makes it worse)! Also, it'll significantly add to my Bruce Willisness.
 

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I would say to just let it be natural, but do it well. I have the vertex form of baldness, so it is only noticeable when looking from above.

As for shaving it off, I would proceed with caution. Some men are able to pull it off very well, but it doesn't look right with other men.

The key to dealing with baldness is to give off the healthy, virile cue with the rest of the body (i.e., weight training.) Baldness in a muscular man is virtually not a hindrance at all.
 

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Bah! Baldness. I ****ing hate it.

I used to have hair literally down to my ass. Everyone treated me like I was a unicorn or some ****. "You have the most awesome hair!". People worshipped it. Girls envied it. Then at 22, I started thinning. Damn. I just kinda ignored it for a while, but by 24 people started saying, "You're going bald.". Another year of denial later, and I finally cut it all off. Chop chop.

Usually I just keep it shaved completely. I think I look better that way. However, when I get lazy and don't shave it (or my face for that matter) for a month or two, is when girls seem most attracted to me. I think everytime I've just randomly hooked up with some chick has been during these phases. I don't know if it's that I look less threatening, or just that I look like I don't care, that does it.

There is a limit. If I go too long that way, people I know tell be that I'm starting to look too old.

I wish more hair would fall out though. I'm 29 now, and my hair hasn't thinned one bit since I first cut it off. Makes me think maybe I just damaged it heavily when it was long. Plus, it would rock the world if I could pull off a proper skullet, like Devin Townsend.

http://i62.photobucket.com/albums/h86/paulharrington/dev.jpg
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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stinkyape said:
If/when my hair starts falling out, I'm going with the Bruce Willis. No one ever laughs at Bruce Willis for being bald. Bruce Willis is awesome. However, Bruce Willis with a hairpiece would be tragic.

Actually, part of me is looking forward to male pattern baldness - Think of the money I'll save on hairstylists, and how easy it will be to keep my head at a comfortable temperature (my head is naturally hot all year round - hair makes it worse)! Also, it'll significantly add to my Bruce Willisness.
You don't have to wait for male pattern baldness. Why don't you do things on your own terms and go Bruce Willis now, you would save all that money and enjoy all the advantages.
 

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Let's ask George Carlin what he thinks:

"Here are some more men who oughta be strapped to a gurney and castrated with fishing knives - white guys who shave their head completely bald. Ya know? They're so ashamed they lost 11 hairs, they're gonna try to turn it into some sort of masculine statement. I say 'Hey ya goofy looking, baldy headed fvck, looks good on black guys. On you, it ugly, repulsive and disgusting. You wanna be bald? Do what I did - wait awhile!' In the meantime, there's no excuse for running around looking like a freshly circumsized d!ck"
 

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Serialized3 said:
Let's ask George Carlin what he thinks:

"Here are some more men who oughta be strapped to a gurney and castrated with fishing knives - white guys who shave their head completely bald. Ya know? They're so ashamed they lost 11 hairs, they're gonna try to turn it into some sort of masculine statement. I say 'Hey ya goofy looking, baldy headed fvck, looks good on black guys. On you, it ugly, repulsive and disgusting. You wanna be bald? Do what I did - wait awhile!' In the meantime, there's no excuse for running around looking like a freshly circumsized d!ck"
While having it buzzed really short is different and can look good on a lot of guys, he is right.....a shaved head looks terrible on most white guys. Although sometimes it is preferable to having a gigantic bald spot or really really thin hair.

Then again, George Carlin does make some retarded points sometimes.
 

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The only thing worse than a white guy shaving his head, and not looking good on him, is a white guy, or any guy, who is bald, yet has long hair. You know, the whole pony tail thing, just like George Carlin. So ironic that he should comment on that.

Another comedian should include bald guy with long hair jokes on his stand up routine, and a lot of people will agree.
 

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Gangster Of Love said:
Another comedian should include bald guy with long hair jokes on his stand up routine, and a lot of people will agree.
fvcking skullets are worse than the mullet Silly Gay Virus had back in the mid-nineties!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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