"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Sarging: Solo or w/ wingman?

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juleswinns

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I want to know if I should recruit my friend as a wingman.


He's 25, good looking but not very talkative. He likes clubs rather than bars but he has drive to go out but he also has a girlfriend he's mad at which is why he goes out on the weekends. I already gave him a 'talk' about his bad relationship but I decided to let it go.

Should i mold him and tell him about this site or just go solo (all my other friends are either married or in serious relationship.)?

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Can anyone link me to good wingman stories?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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So you want to try to make him a DJ while trying to use him to sarge? Do you have that much time on your hands?
 
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WC2

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I like going out on my own. A good wingman is always a great thing, but I've never actually "recruited" a wingman. You can only teach someone so much, because in the end they'll really need to learn it on their own. Get out there and meet some women and some other guys who know what the deal is instead of wasting your time.
 
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