"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sarging: Solo or w/ wingman?

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juleswinns

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I want to know if I should recruit my friend as a wingman.


He's 25, good looking but not very talkative. He likes clubs rather than bars but he has drive to go out but he also has a girlfriend he's mad at which is why he goes out on the weekends. I already gave him a 'talk' about his bad relationship but I decided to let it go.

Should i mold him and tell him about this site or just go solo (all my other friends are either married or in serious relationship.)?

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Can anyone link me to good wingman stories?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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So you want to try to make him a DJ while trying to use him to sarge? Do you have that much time on your hands?
 
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WC2

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I like going out on my own. A good wingman is always a great thing, but I've never actually "recruited" a wingman. You can only teach someone so much, because in the end they'll really need to learn it on their own. Get out there and meet some women and some other guys who know what the deal is instead of wasting your time.
 
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