"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sarging right before Valentines day

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What's up guys,

It seems today and tomorrow is a great day to sarge because girls don't want to be alone during Valentines day. How would you guys use a new # you got today? Wait until after V-day to call? I don't want to call the same day.. would you sent a text tonight? Help a brother out.

Peace!

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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My Name is Nobody said:
What's up guys,

It seems today and tomorrow is a great day to sarge because girls don't want to be alone during Valentines day. How would you guys use a new # you got today? Wait until after V-day to call? I don't want to call the same day.. would you sent a text tonight? Help a brother out.

Peace!

MININ
3 day thing is the worst advice ever.. call on the same day/next day.. its way better than the 3 day rule.. please beleive me on this one... im speaking from experince.
 

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Hell, why not? Just call them up and say something like "I know we just met today, but you're single and I'm single, so we might as well go get a bite to eat tonight" or something along those lines.

Oh, and go somewhere fun, like somewhere that has some pool tables or something. Or go out to eat and then do something fun. Just because it's V-Day doesn't mean it has to be some super formal (boring) date.
 

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Look for "Anti Valentines Day" events in your city if you want to actually pick someone up.
 
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Sounds like I'll be calling tomorrow to set up a V-Day date :) Good call guys!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My Name is Nobody said:
Sounds like I'll be calling tomorrow to set up a V-Day date :) Good call guys!
Don't forget a candy bar, none of those Hersey's Kisses though.
 
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brett012 said:
I live in a dorm, and I'm thinking of doing this: I dress pretty nice and find one of the girls I know in the dorm, in her room and say "why are you in? it's valentine's day. no, come on, let's go out, I'm taking you somewhere" or something like that. Not sure I have the balls though

Good idea?

Go for it don't just sit around and do nothing.
 

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lol i have found out that this past week girls have been very flirty with me so i think it shouldnt be that hard i guess.
 

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Me....this days girls have been asking if....I have a secret admirer or some thing along the lines...I just look at them like what is going...

gIRLS KINDA GO CRAZY...i dont Know whY.....



I would if I was them....Right now Im flirting with a chick i Like.....but Im trying not go all out.....BUT ALWAYS CONVEY INTEREST moderateley


Im going to keep mY options open for valentines
 
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brett012 said:
I know I've thought about that. I'm wondering if the girls would like it.
Yes they will love it. Go do it immediately, and report back the results in this thread. If it doesn't work on the first girl do it again until it you succeed. There must be an unlimited supply of girls at college you're lucky.

Just think how us guys feel down when we are alone on Valentines day. Now imaging the females, they must feel 10 times worse! So I say sarge like there ain't no tomorrow. I believe that the day before Valentines day could be the best day of the year to sarge.

My goal is 5 #'s by the end of today and a date for each day the rest of the week. I down 4 to go, let's get this party started it's really not that hard fellas.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Don't forget a candy bar, none of those Hersey's Kisses though.

i got the date ! what kind of candy bar are you talking about??
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
i got the date ! what kind of candy bar are you talking about??
From my interpretation, Francisco could have been sarcastic on what he said. OR he could have placed a metaphor here where the candy bar is actually your **** ROFL. idk...I think too much sometimes :crackup:
 

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young_gun said:
Hell, why not? Just call them up and say something like "I know we just met today, but you're single and I'm single, so we might as well go get a bite to eat tonight" or something along those lines.

Oh, and go somewhere fun, like somewhere that has some pool tables or something. Or go out to eat and then do something fun. Just because it's V-Day doesn't mean it has to be some super formal (boring) date.
Yes, I like this. I am going to offer a night of pool/kareokee to one I am working on. If she wants to go fine, if not, I'll hang out there anyway. She is currently whining over a lost love. I told her that if she needs me "in that way" I'm here for her, but I have no interest in being her male girlfriend while she cries over his ass. She can call a woman and cry to her. If she needs me for "sexual healing" we aim to satisfy.
 
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Damn she turned out to be a UG5 and I could have looked past that but her personality was horrible too!
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Thank goodness I didn't show up with that candy bar... Francisco must think I'm ready for the show he stopped replying to me LOL.

Should have known from the black and white photo she was a UG damn it was bad! I started talking about politics and the presidential race, and disagreeing with her so she wouldn't want to see me again!
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
Thank goodness I didn't show up with that candy bar... Francisco must think I'm ready for the show he stopped replying to me LOL.

Should have known from the black and white photo she was a UG damn it was bad! I started talking about politics and the presidential race, and disagreeing with her so she wouldn't want to see me again!
from the opening topic, i was under the impression that you sarged her. in person.
 
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Flyer said:
from the opening topic, i was under the impression that you sarged her. in person.
Nope not this one. Who cares how it's done as long as she goes out with you?
 

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Nope not this one. Who cares how it's done as long as she goes out with you?
Dude, you don't go out with a woman just because she has anatomy which is compatible to your own! Did you do anything to qualify her? Did you even check to see if you were even slightly attracted to her?
 
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Dude, you don't go out with a woman just because she has anatomy which is compatible to your own!
Oops.

Francisco d'Anconia said:
Did you do anything to qualify her? Did you even check to see if you were even slightly attracted to her?

She fooled me! Black and white pics + no body shots.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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