"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sarging on the Lower East Side in NYC tonight

lexdiamond20

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Anyone's is invited to come. Supposed to be meting at least 2 other guys tonight around 10:30 - 11:00 just to hang out and hopefully holler at some chicks. Meet will most likely be at White Rabbit lounge 145 e Houston and we'll most likely hit some other spots. Not sure if it will show up be here is the link to where we met

http://www.meetup.com/NYC-AFC-2-PUA-meetup/calendar/10641752/

Hope to see some of you guys out there. And sorry for such late notice.

About to hit the gym but ill check this board again before I leave for the city later.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Based on the fact that it started pouring and the fact that a few people flaked, were changing the meet up to tomorrow night. Once again, if you want in just let me know on this board and ill let you know the details.
 

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Hey lexdiamond20. I won't be back in town until 8/27 Thursday. You guys still meet?
 
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