Sarging last night. Field report

[PRAGMATIST]

Last night...Went out and met a few guys I dont know, for the first time (work colleges of my friend)..we went to a late night bar and although one of these guys talked like he was a ladies man..as soon as I started opening up a group of 3 girls he showed his true colors (intimidated, quiet and a useless wing). The other two guys were also terrible but at least they didnt BS about having skills. Anyhow I got bored of these girls, even though they were cute, because 9 times of of 10 its me who obviously strikes up the conversation but then its almost always on me to keep it going and keep them all entertained, in short a lot of work..The vast majority of women I approach dont reject me, that rarley happens, luckily, although they would reject me within the first few seconds if I didnt have bit of game. The problem I have is meeting good looking but boring women...its like pulling teeth talking to them usually.

I moved on and hit on another group of 4 women, all sat together, almost got ejected right off the bat by two of them, who were not happy bunnies, due to me daring to break into their girls night out...First woman gave me a dirty look and ignored me, so I turned to the next girl in the group who was also not happy and said something along those lines...but I couldn't walk away at his point as I hadn't said hello to the other two women, and walking away at this point would look really, really weak, plus id have felt like crap giving up so easy...but I dont stay long where Im not wanted, just to be clear..so i just extended my hand to the third girl, and boom, she was super smiley and loved the attention...and funnily enough she was the hottest in the group too...we pissed the other women in the group off by talking to each other and ignoring them...but I exited after a few minutes, due to the logistics, more than anything else.

Met the same girl at the bar later and number closed..the virtues of not chasing targets or overstaying your welcome..

One of the girls from the original threesome I hit on showed up at the bar, by now drunk...She seemed pretty unreceptive and appeared to have an attitude when I met her earlier but now she was all about me..."which one of us girls do you like? " she says ..i say "Its you" i could pretty much care less, but it was her I actually thought was the best of the bunch..she says "you dont want me, you want my friend, Im fat" she wasnt fat, at all, just wasted and clearly a low self opinion......I didnt capitalize on her due the the fact she was so drunk..unattractively drunk.

Walked to the bar and some random girl caught me on the way and started to dance with me...we danced and then sat down, she obviously was fun to hang out with because she initiated the interaction..but I couldnt get a kiss, even though I had my hands over her etc...I teased her about it but no kiss...I just number closed instead....

Outside the same girl appeared, with her Gfriend and some dude, I didnt know she had a guy with her in the bar, obviously, I assume it was her date...and they seemed to be following my group to the next bar...but she changed her mind and went with the guy to wherever...her, not hot, Gfriend tagged along with us..weirdly..

hit a nightclub for the last half hour of the night...damn a lot of T and A in this joint..Im on the dance floor on my own..hoping my moves will attract some honies..as sometimes happens..but not last night. hit on a couple of girls, who were super hot, they had dudes with them...but one seemed really happy to talk with me..but what can you do..

Went outside and one of the guys I was with, who acts, looks and sounds totally gay to me....(I had been told from different people this guy is both a social reject and a pv55y magnet???) From what id seen of him during the night he was quite, awkward effeminate and a pretty strange dude IMO...However he was talking to a hot chick..she was clearly into him..He exits the covo and tells me the girl asked to have sex with him..Im like WTF..but he tells me, he didnt want to, he didnt feel right about it..Did I say this guy seemed gay already. Anyhow I go straight over to the vacant position and start hitting on this sure thing...but of course, some abercrombie and fitch, looking, guy friend, she knows, then decided to put himself as a wall between me and her, with his back squarley right in my face, ..I got pissed off and pushed him away, yes, yes I know not cool, but sometimes you lose it with Cblokers like this, especially when you add alcohol. Anyhow the girl then goes into panic mode and begs me not to escalate things into a fight..I had no intention of fighting anyone anyway...but needless to say the last shot of the night was blown. When a gay guy with no game can get better results than a player it is not a good night sarging.

 

[AdAstra]

So you were soloing ha. Thing i do not understand is number closing in clubs, is it not for other venues? I mean in my head Clubs = F close primary, numbers are kind of meaningless because she will not remember who you are next day :/ In my experience gay guys are good wings so...

 

[PRAGMATIST]

So you were soloing ha. Thing i do not understand is number closing in clubs, is it not for other venues? I mean in my head Clubs = F close primary, numbers are kind of meaningless because she will not remember who you are next day :/ In my experience gay guys are good wings so...

It depends.. When nothings working, ill take a number just as a runners up thing, often Ill ask for a number, just close a conversation, ...i generally bin numbers without bothering calling...unless I get a lot of indicators when I initially get the number. its like that, you can close numbers all night and all day, but women will give you numbers just to be "nice". The art is being able to difference the women who are really into you and the ones who are being courteous. This is why guys moan about flakes more than anything..women flake because, they gave you their number to be nice or to get rid of you from bothering them... . F closing in clubs, from my experience youll mostly get complete trolls for one night stands... as for gay guys, I know a few, all of them are pretty unsociable and not so stereotypical, but women flock to one of them, mainly because he is a snappy dresser and shows complete disinterest, obviously.

 

[AdAstra]

It depends.. When nothings working, ill take a number just as a runners up thing...i generally bin numbers without bothering calling...unless I get a lot of indicators when I initially get the number. its like that, you can close numbers all night and all day, but women will give you numbers just to be "nice". The art is being able to difference the women who are really into you and the ones who are being courteous.. F closing in clubs, from my experience youll mostly get complete trolls for one night stands... and Gay guys, I know a few, all of them are pretty unsociable, but women flock to one of them, mainly becaus he is a snappy dresser and shows complete disinterest.

Well they say you will not find any quality stuff in clubs, and I have to agree. ONS works well, then again I might be a bit cynical here.

 

[PRAGMATIST]

Well they say you will not find any quality stuff in clubs, and I have to agree. ONS works well, then again I might be a bit cynical here.

To be frank. Im pushing 40 not 30, so my best days, a far a clubs go, are 10 years ago..but even then the best lookin chicks are in the club to pose, pr1ck tease, and get free drinks all night... Duh! And even though lots of "professional " PUA's give the impression you can play a load of manipulative mind games in a club, when you have only a few hours to work and have to compete against every other guy, loud music and various other variables... well you can to an extent, and you can make a great impression on women...but the F close is still a lot to do with luck, on the night, unless were talking about a complete fugly mutant.

I have had ONS with dimes, that I met in clubs, but id put that down to being in the right place at the right time, because on those occasions those women hit on me first. Overwhelmingly the women who want to go home are usually throwing themselves at the nearest guy and are not exactly the prom queen..

The main reason I go to clubs and hit on women, the main reason, is just to keep sharp and have fun. I enjoy it. I dont go out like a 19 year old guy, with my blood boiling, determined to get laid...as most of us know from experience, thats one of the most counterproductive mentalities you can have. When your too eager and to obvious your too easy to see through.

 

[AdAstra]

To be frank. Im pushing 40 not 30, so my best days, a far a clubs go, are 10 years ago..but even then the best lookin chicks are in the club to pose, pr1ck tease, and get free drinks all night... Duh! And even though lots of "professional " PUA's give the impression you can play a load of manipulative mind games in a club, when you have only a few hours to work and have to compete against every other guy, loud music and various other variables... well you can to an extent, and you can make a great impression on women...but the F close is still a lot to do with luck, on the night, unless were talking about a complete fugly mutant.

I have had ONS with dimes, that I met in clubs, but id put that down to being in the right place at the right time, because on those occasions those women hit on me first. Overwhelmingly the women who want to go home are usually throwing themselves at the nearest guy and are not exactly the prom queen..

The main reason I go to clubs and hit on women, the main reason, is just to keep sharp and have fun. I enjoy it. I dont go out like a 19 year old guy, with my blood boiling, determined to get laid...as most of us know from experience, thats one of the most counterproductive mentalities you can have. When your too eager and to obvious your too easy to see through.

Coming to 29 in a few, so i can still game some clubs based on age factor, so playing roulette there is still viable. But yes you are right in your text, and about girls mentality in clubs...daim, it is like being 1 euro coin and pretending that you are 500 euro banknote...