"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Another thing is that you can actually rent a girlfriend over there for a week.
Also get out of Bangkok and go to some other places in Thailand.
Good advice here, heard so many horror stories.SharinganUser said:lust make sure she isn't a he.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
they are often here to have fun so pretty opened to it. I would say be hot and american and it should do it.
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Htienvu said:Good advice here, heard so many horror stories.
Please quote me properly, especially on this thread. I said "Just" not "lust." :woo:
Cool, didn't see the mistake...SharinganUser said:Please quote me properly, especially on this thread. I said "Just" not "lust." :woo:
Anyways, been to bangkok a few times, don't go anywhere near the girls on the street, girls in bars. You want call girls? Go to a proper high class palour.