"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sarging for Tall Chicks

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Does anyone know good places to pick up tall chicks?

I pretty much go for girls between 5'10" and 6'2" exclusively, and while its certainly not impossible to find them, it can be a tough sarge at times to find ones who are legitimately this tall and are still thin and cute (and are not 5'5" girls in spike heels).

The good news is that often, unless she is supermodel hot, your only competition for these chicks is, ironically, very short men. As the taller guy these girls desperately seek, I have a better chance of success in addition to being more attracted to them in the first place.

Now, if I could only find more than one a night to approach!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by HereToImprove
Does anyone know good places to pick up tall chicks?

I pretty much go for girls between 5'10" and 6'2" exclusively, and while its certainly not impossible to find them, it can be a tough sarge at times to find ones who are legitimately this tall and are still thin and cute (and are not 5'5" girls in spike heels).

The good news is that often, unless she is supermodel hot, your only competition for these chicks is, ironically, very short men. As the taller guy these girls desperately seek, I have a better chance of success in addition to being more attracted to them in the first place.

Now, if I could only find more than one a night to approach!
The one or two really tall girls that I've met (and I'd consider "tall" for a girl to be 6'2 and above) tend to prefer guys right about the same height as them (or maybe 1 or 2" taller, so they could wear heels). They didn't like dating guys a lot taller than them, so if you're pushing 6'6" or better (like I am), your better bet, ironically enough, is the shorter girls.
 

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That is a pretty small sample size, but its duly noted. Pretty much every tall girl I have ever talked to considers a guy who is at least 3 inches taller than her to be an unbending absolute requirement.

I have only dated one girl under 5'8" in my life, and all the others have fallen between 5'9" and 6', and each said what initially attracted them to me was that I was taller than them. They then all, to a woman, complain about how all the taller guys go for the shortest women. In my situation, its like going in to the PU with an ace up your sleeve.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'd check out some of the womens volleyball teams at the local colleges.
 

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hah, man i'm 5'7 and sexed a girl that was 6'3 damn near a whole foot taller than me can't say it was the best sex i've had though, considering it hurt more than it pleased. lol, but she had a good time :D
 

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I LOVE taller girls, My girl is 6'2" (I'm 6'1") and she gives me absolute HELL sometimes but for me it's worth it since I still get to enjoy my freedoms and what not. Really I just met her out one night so just keep your eyes open you're bound to come across one or two sooner or later. I met another tall girl who's got the same look and first name as my girl in the exact same bar! Kinda freaky weird, and she's nicer then my girl but I couldn't do her that wrong... although she is out of the country right now, all I'd have to do is keep a heads up for her room mate and I'd be in the clear:whistle:
 

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I love tall girls! I have noticed that most of them want a guy who is taller, so she is able to wear heels. Try Myspace if not your local night scene! Tall girls are every where....trust me!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Man I love tall chicks... theoretically, at least, but I'm pretty sure I've never hooked a gal over 5'11" (and I'm 5'8", so she already head to lean down tot kiss me :crackup: )

I want a 6 footer!
 

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In the past month, i've went out on dates with two girls over six foot (I am about 6'1.5 with shoes on 6 ft. even without). On the date, both girls wore heels, making them a lot taller then myself. Both of these girls have model looks, so the stares and comments we were receiving got pretty ridiculous. Since i'm not a short guy, both of my dates didn't have a problem being taller then me....which was cool!

...BTW i met one girl on myspace and the other at a bar!
 

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Originally posted by Interpol
A basketball court?
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haha! that made me laugh.
Omg, that's EXACTLY what I was gonna reply, but now that I scrolled down and read your post I guess I'm not gonna do that anymore ;)
 

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I've really wondered this - I've had zero luck with girls much more than one or two inches taller than me. Do girls simply expect a man to be taller than them?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by Interpol
Yes, many do
Well those silly broads are missing out.

In any case, I like tall girls, and I don't give a crap about their stupid height requirements - I'm gonna keep goin for the tall ones.

As for finding tall girls to approach, try the back sections of crowds (they don't mind being there, they can see over everybody), the deep end of a swimming pool, or perhaps near deep snow where others would be rightfully fearful to tread.
 

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Snagged a number from a hot 6'2" girl at a Charlotte Russe store today :) If she wears some heels, she will be taller than me (6'4") Now that is something I am not used to!

I put a profile of myself on an online dating site and almost the only girls who respond are at least 5'10". They almost ALL email me. If you are 6'2"+ and you dig the lanky ladies, its like shooting fish in a barrel. Most of my random hookups in my life have been "tall hawks" even. I have gotten with a couple girls who were dating college basketball players at other schools, one of which was 7'1". I really think its the most important physical characteristic for women, more so than weight, facial structure, etc. It seems that I have no luck with girls who are not predisposed to tall men.

As to BrotherAP, yes, many tall girls do have this. Most of the women I have dated in this height bracket have a strict height requirement of 2-4 inches taller than them, minimum. Its funny how height is one of the only things chicks will NOT waver on. I have lost a lot of shorter girls because my height intimidates them.

BTW, when I first posted this, I was going to add the disclaimer "besides a basketball court"

I knew I would get that one, and quick!
 

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Originally posted by BrotherAP
Well those silly broads are missing out.

In any case, I like tall girls, and I don't give a crap about their stupid height requirements - I'm gonna keep goin for the tall ones.

As for finding tall girls to approach, try the back sections of crowds (they don't mind being there, they can see over everybody), the deep end of a swimming pool, or perhaps near deep snow where others would be rightfully fearful to tread.
The truth hurts, that like a fat girls saying that guys are missing out on her.

Don't let that stop you though if your short, just keep at it.

Mr. Mystery
 

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Snagged the # of a WNBA player Sunday night...FR coming soon!

On with the sarge!
 

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Originally posted by HereToImprove
Snagged the # of a WNBA player Sunday night...FR coming soon!

On with the sarge!
i was also going to laugh at interpols great line, which has been done about 4 times.

but get this.

INTERPOL WAS RIGHT! HERETOIMPROVE HAS FOUND A WNBA PLAYER! THATS SO AWESOME!

its as if HTI read the first reply, got out there, and nailed the idea. :)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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