"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SARGING at KOREA as a TOURIST

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Hey guys,

I will be going to Korea/Seoul this Oct alone and be sarging all the way. I have a special liking for koreans and not going to waste time and money there doing nothing! I'm going to sarge and get as many closes as possible ever. And I'm going to post all field reports for all you DJs!

Some points to discuss before I go:-

1) In general Are girls more receptive to foreigners opening them? I heard ppl mentioning that white foreigners score better towards asian babes. Do asian guys (I looked korean) appeal to them?

2) What will be a great opener to use when sarging as a tourist?? Especially @ asian grounds where English is not commonly used.

Going on full gear!
Welcoming all points relating to Asian sarging as a foreigner.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I live in the Philippines and we have a lot of Koreans studying here.. I've gone out with a couple.. Here is a picture of one I went out with.. not really hot, but she had a really fun personality..

http://i38.photobucket.com/albums/e128/NeonBase/SunnyandJay.jpg

And a lot of Koreans prefer other Koreans... But if you have game, you can get them for sure!

Best of luck! Hey take a buncha pictures of Seoul.. I've always wondered how Korea looked like, and have thought about visiting there in the future.
 

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charlezz,

hey dude.. u'll have fun there, ive been 2x for Army training.. that was enough for me.. wasnt bad, but definitely wasn't great either lol..

u'll like seoul..we partied hard out there man.. theres this stuff called SOJU, trust me u'll drink it like water and then u'll go to stand up and then boom!! haha we had fun partying..oh and the shopping is great, really cheap too.. um, lemme see what else to tell u.. oh itaewon is a section of seoul and that is where the majority of ur foreigners live..lots of european, australians, asians obviously, and americans.. a lot of them work as teachers so there will be tons of good looking girls for u.. i didnt try to pick up any korean girls but asian girls are kinda shy by nature i think.. well, at least in my experiences with meeting japanese tourists here in hawaii...

just be confident and no matter what enjoy urself and have a blast.. and dont forget to hydrate for the SOJU lol
 

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Yah, I'll definately try to pick them up. I will be aimming on Korean Party girls~. I have quite good success with koreans in my country (K-close) But there are like only 2 koreans since i sarge. So I wonder does it applies to Native Koreans.

Driven2Succeed, U mentioned about partying, great! But I'm going alone -_-" It will be a great challenge picking up on the streets and get K-girls to be my mini guide. Even better, I even want to entice them to bring me to meet up their friends and partying together. Kinda hard, but i will try. Or any suggestions??

I will be staying at one of the guest-houses where there will be other bagpackers. Most probably i will get to know some foreign strangers and go party with them if possible. Plus, my korean GF there may be bringing me around. But she's somehow a damaged set (Long story), so I'm not pinning any hopes to have her as my guide.

Cheers
 
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u wont be alone for long man.. hell, meet people at the airport or even when u land at incheon.. or on the bus to seoul..its probably an hour ride from airport to seoul so u have time to meet people and figure stuff out..

ur never alone brother..just gotta talk and be cool..

i notice u said "Cheers".. i somtimes do that in my British/Aussie voice lol.. where are u from man?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Driven2Succeed said:
u wont be alone for long man.. hell, meet people at the airport or even when u land at incheon.. or on the bus to seoul..its probably an hour ride from airport to seoul so u have time to meet people and figure stuff out..

ur never alone brother..just gotta talk and be cool..

i notice u said "Cheers".. i somtimes do that in my British/Aussie voice lol.. where are u from man?
Haha pal, seeing your reply makes me run @ 200km/hr to sarge. I'm from Singapore, Chinese~ ^^ , That brings me to another topic.

How will you guys open those Korean babes if you are me, standing on korean grounds, seeing swarms of HBs here and there?
 

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Opening in a foreign country is easy. I cant wait until i decide to go around the world. Its going to happen. I just need to get all the funds together.

Do you speak English? (Naturally thats my first line as i am an arogant brit.

From there you can say anything.

Wheres a good place to.....anything

Easy openers.

Sarge On!
 

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Tomatoes said:
Opening in a foreign country is easy. I cant wait until i decide to go around the world. Its going to happen. I just need to get all the funds together.

Do you speak English? (Naturally thats my first line as i am an arogant brit.

From there you can say anything.

Wheres a good place to.....anything

Easy openers.

Sarge On!
And end it off with a "I think you are the prettiest girl in Seoul I've seen so far" in korean. That might impress her greatly. AFC? I don't know. For me to try and for you all to know!
 

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I live in the Philippines and we have a lot of Koreans studying here.. I've gone out with a couple.. Here is a picture of one I went out with.. not really hot, but she had a really fun personality..

http://i38.photobucket.com/albums/e128/NeonBase/SunnyandJay.jpg

And a lot of Koreans prefer other Koreans... But if you have game, you can get them for sure!

Best of luck! Hey take a buncha pictures of Seoul.. I've always wondered how Korea looked like, and have thought about visiting there in the future.
She's pretty cute, maybe a 6.5. Has great skin, the hair needs fixing though.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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charlezz said:
And end it off with a "I think you are the prettiest girl in Seoul I've seen so far" in korean. That might impress her greatly. AFC? I don't know. For me to try and for you all to know!
Don't know if that's the best thing to say, could work though in a foreign country. You'd have to say it with the right tone and with a smile on your face, would probably make them giggle or something, Korean girls giggle a LOT.

I went out with a Korean Korean girl here in the states for 3.5 years (I know way too long), so send me a PM if you want some of my feedback on that and what she said Korean girls like.

snbatman
 

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Could you maybe describe what korean chicks are like for all of us to read?

Im just interested because I have experience with japanese and chinese, but Im interested in how koreans would be different.
 

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NeonBase said:
I live in the Philippines and we have a lot of Koreans studying here.. I've gone out with a couple.. Here is a picture of one I went out with.. not really hot, but she had a really fun personality..

http://i38.photobucket.com/albums/e128/NeonBase/SunnyandJay.jpg

And a lot of Koreans prefer other Koreans... But if you have game, you can get them for sure!

Best of luck! Hey take a buncha pictures of Seoul.. I've always wondered how Korea looked like, and have thought about visiting there in the future.
She is a cutey man, the only flaw I see is how her head is relatively big compared to her body, but thats sorta normal for lots of asians.
 

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Don't know if that's the best thing to say, could work though in a foreign country. You'd have to say it with the right tone and with a smile on your face, would probably make them giggle or something, Korean girls giggle a LOT.

I went out with a Korean Korean girl here in the states for 3.5 years (I know way too long), so send me a PM if you want some of my feedback on that and what she said Korean girls like.

snbatman
Brought me to another question. Westernized koreans vs Korea Koreans (Traditional). Nowadays, Koreans are going aboard.. learning english blarblarblar. What will be the main difference (in sarging terms) between westernized asians vs traditional asians?

I think traditional koreans are very conservative and seems impossible to F-close within 3 dates. My furthest is only k-close.
 

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I think traditional koreans are very conservative and seems impossible to F-close within 3 dates.
If theyre like japanese then you can **** her faaaaaaast.

The japanese have a completely different way of looking at sex.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Japan is one of the most westernised country in Asia. Famous for being more open minded as compared to their korea counterpart.

A pilot friend of mine mentions about the vast difference between them. although just a sea away, they think differently.
 

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charlezz said:
Japan is one of the most westernised country in Asia. Famous for being more open minded as compared to their korea counterpart.

A pilot friend of mine mentions about the vast difference between them. although just a sea away, they think differently.
With all respect man, they are not westernized. They look westernized because they are modern and influenced by america, but thats only skin deep.
 

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Ok, I'm not going to give advice to the asiaphiles on here to just go to an "exotic" country and **** women. Of course, if you're an equal opportunity womanizer that is just doing their Asian section, then I'm all for that.

In general, I think Korean women in Korea tend to be like any other population of women, some are "easy" and others are more conservative. You'll just have to try your luck. There are definitely the more westernized, materialistic, "*****es" who I think western types might find easier to f-close. The more traditional ones might take more effort. Again, depends on the situation and how much you want a particular girl's ass.
 

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With all respect man, they are not westernized. They look westernized because they are modern and influenced by america, but thats only skin deep.
One of the most westernized country as compared to other asian babes. I cannot deny the fact that in any countries, there are bound to have certain percentage of Open/closed-minded girls. Just have to look for it.



The main point in this topic.. I'm going alone to korea with no wing. a short period of 1-2weeks.

Either :-
Street sarge, easy to open as a foreigner. But hard to escalate from there. Any ideas/suggestions on this??

Clubs, girls are with their own clicks and its best to find sets with all babes rather than a mixed set. And approaching alone without a wing in foreign ground is... wow... a great challenge.

The crucial challenge is, i can't even speak their native language. But sometimes I feel that it creates another element of curiosity as to making them curious about my culture too.

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Preparation before i go there :-
- Rid off my AA by practising on local girls first.
- Educate on their culture before going there.
- learn their language (basics only)

Cheers
 

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Do you have ICQ or something like that?

I know that the south koreans have the largest high speed internet network in the world, for them internet is like a common household appliance.

Search for people online.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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