Sarges in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Giacomo Girolamo

New Member

Jun 27, 2007

Hello Djs in Brazil... I´ve been sarging a lot here in various places... during all day, I´ve been sarging HBs at subway, train, on streets, squares, restaurants and pub. At night, I´ve used to go to bars and clubs at Lapa and South Zone in the most amusing and mood places.

I invite you, DJ artists, to join me in this incridible adventure of approaching and sarging HBs in Rio... trust on me, they´re the best ones.

DJ, contact me in the e-mail [email protected].

Let´s sarge all the ****in´things!

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.