Sarges in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Giacomo Girolamo

New Member

Jun 27, 2007

Hello Djs in Brazil... I´ve been sarging a lot here in various places... during all day, I´ve been sarging HBs at subway, train, on streets, squares, restaurants and pub. At night, I´ve used to go to bars and clubs at Lapa and South Zone in the most amusing and mood places.

I invite you, DJ artists, to join me in this incridible adventure of approaching and sarging HBs in Rio... trust on me, they´re the best ones.

DJ, contact me in the e-mail [email protected].

Let´s sarge all the ****in´things!

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.