Sarcastic girls

[DJinTraining06]

I been seein this really sarcastic chick. She says people have told her shes very hard to read. And i'm really starting to agree. I can never tell if shes having a good time or not talkin to me. I called the day after our 2nd date and she sounded so blase. That same night tho she texted me and said "i hope ur having a good night!" So its weird its like she's not comfortable showing emotion on a reg basis, only occasionally like with that text. Im kinda turned on by the witty sarcastic banter we have back and forth but shes diff from most girls ive dated who wear they hearts on their sleeves more. So I got no idea if this girl is bored, annoyed, or excited half the time. Is it shyness or past expereinces of being hurt that cause her to be like this? I mean shes a speech pathologist and she doesnt seem overly shy so i wouldnt think shy is the reason.

Anybody got an expereience with unemotional girls like this and how to deal with them or comprehened them? My game is thrown off. I mean i know u should never show too much interest, but u can usualyl tell which girls want u to call and see them alot, and which ones don't as often. With this girl its not clear at all, i have no idea what she likes, should i call her at all this week or does she like to keep things very slow and casual? I plan on callin to plan a friday date on either tuesday or wednesday, but other than that should i not contact her at all, and see if she contacts me? She originally said she hates when guys play games and dont call for 3 days after a foirst date, but now we had 2 dates so i dunno hmmmm.

 

[SamePendo]

What you are doing is trying to fit into their reality, and make it all make sense. When it should be the other way round.

Do you really want to be figuring her out? Wouldn't you rather date a chick with less mental****ness?

 

[DJinTraining06]

What you are doing is trying to fit into their reality, and make it all make sense. When it should be the other way round.

Do you really want to be figuring her out? Wouldn't you rather date a chick with less mental****ness?

I wouldnt say she had mental illness, thats a bit exxagerated. All girls have their own weirdness. Have u ever met one who didnt? I haven't

 

[SamePendo]

I wouldnt say she had mental illness, thats a bit exxagerated. All girls have their own weirdness. Have u ever met one who didnt? I haven't

Everything in life has pros and cons. There are some cons that men generaly tend to not like in women, like sarcasm. If it doesn't bother you and it's ok with you (apparently it's not), good for you I guess.

Just game her the same, as you said, she said something but did something else. You do the same things, and aim for the lay. Good luck.

 

[Kings_royalty]

She says people have told her shes very hard to read.

She's trying to plant that idea in your head to be mysterious. You should have said 'no you are not, i know all about you'. That response would have thrown her off course.

I called the day after our 2nd date and she sounded so blase. That same night tho she texted me and said "i hope ur having a good night!"

She realized how she was behaving after the conversation, so she tried to make up for it by sending you that text. Your response text should have been, 'don't worry, i will'. She gives you blase; you throw it right back at her. Only be nice after she has 'earned' it.

So I got no idea if this girl is bored, annoyed, or excited half the time.

That's exactly what she wants; she wants to keep you off guard. Feed her crap right back to her and you'll notice a change in her. If you don't, she not all that into you and it's time to move on.

Is it shyness or past experiences of being hurt that cause her to be like this?

It doesn't matter, that is none of your business. Deal with her behavior 'now', don't worry about the cause behind it. You are wasting energy like that.

My game is thrown off.

It's time to throw hers off.

I mean i know u should never show too much interest,

There is nothing wrong with showing interest, it's WHEN you show interest that makes the difference.

She originally said she hates when guys play games and dont call for 3 days after a foirst date, but now we had 2 dates so i dunno hmmmm.

Forget what she says, it's not important. Watch how she 'behaves', that's the key. You need to start getting her Interest Level up bro, all this nonsense will go away once she really gets into you.