sarcastic fighting

[duttylove]

ok having a problem with my own girl this time. when we go out and are around her friends or mine, she is really sarcastic trying to bring me down for example if the conversation goes onto sex, she will say in front of every one (mainly her friends)

random: my boyfriend is really good in bed
her: lucky you my boyfriend doesnt know how to f**k he has a small c**k(looks at me and smiles)

then will turn to me saying you know im joking or some shyt like that,

when were alone together she doesnt speak like this, why is she doing it infront of her friends.

ill reply with some thing like

me: its not that i have a small c**k just your to f**king loose (smile n look at her)

then she gets into a bad mood.

so the question is am i dealing with this rite or should i be ignoring her comments?

 

[iCanDoThat]

its called a front. it means she is putting up a front(or acting differently) in front of her friends. most girls will do this. (i do not know why) i do know that you cant let them know that it buggs you. insulting her back just means that you are offended and are defending yourself because your not confident, and insecure of you "size". i probably would have said the exact thing that you did because its f*ckin hillarious
to fix the problem: you probably could get by with sayin that to her, but you would have to say it with a HUGE smile on your face, and then say "you know im just joking, right?"

i know how you feel, i cant understand why they do that but they do. most of the time i just go along with it and say something sarcastic with a smile on my face and make all the girls laugh alot more than her comment.

hope it helps

ps. maybe some one else can make a comment on why chikcs tend do this. i would personaly like to know.
peace

 

[spukee]

She's just playing - I've found a few girls who like to flirt that way as well. Hell, I love a sarcastic sense of humor; shows the girl's got a little edge to her.

Instead of coming back with an equally negative comment, try putting a positive spin on what she says:

her: lucky you my boyfriend doesnt know how to f**k he has a small c**k(looks at you and smiles)
you: You sure didn't seem to mind last night (over the top girly orgasm sounds)

Shows you're secure enough to take a joke, and can still give her crap about it without personally attacking her. I'm sure there are other ways to handle it, but don't be offended by her remarks - that's just her sense of humor.

 

[yunghova35]

This chick is just being playful (well maybe but read on) why do you think ****y and funny goes over so well, because it’s what GIRLS do to each other think about it and listen to how females interact with their “friends” you hear them calling each other “sluts” and saying “your such a *****” in a playful sense. So the best thing to do is it TURN IT UP, like your doing.

Ok the fact that when you do “turn it up” she cant take it shows me a few things ONE that she’s just one of those people who “dish it but can’t take it” and those people are just dumb because if you hit someone it is expected to get hit back. And in you guys verbal fight is the same way.

Now another thing the fact that she cant take out what she dishes sort of shows me that she MAY just be trying to degrade you and that is why she gets mad when you “fight back” in this case you should not only dish it back to her but also leave her butt as well.

Lastly you said after she does this she apologizes, well I say when you make you remark to battle the one she will say DON’T apologize and she how well she handles THAT.

 

[frivolousz21]

my girl does this to mean sometimes..

she will say im lying repeatly or say repeat other things..or give me **** infrnt of people...because I reply...or ill grab her, or tell her she is in deep ****..or something..or play along pending on what she says.

like she said I was lying about something.

I said Ill be sure to lie when im pounding my other girls