Sarcastic and Witty comments

[PokerStar]

Ok Guys,

Here's the deal.

I'm starting to not give a f*ck with what I say to women these days. If they leave themselves open for sarcasm or a neg hit, I by all means dont hold myself back.

but now, we these younger girls, they say im mean and sarcastic.

I really dont care but am I stepping over lines here?
The witty I become, the more I feel im on top of my game.

My question here is, does it work against me?

I bet you most of these girls are used to having their egos stroked. They are used to guys buying them stuff(food,roses, drinks) or these girls are being told how hot they are al the time.

Im just not into doing that.

I pick the opposite, why you ask? because I get a laugh out of it. I say sh*t just to get a reactioin out of these girls. it makes me laugh.

And if they dont like it, they can get the hell outta my face.

So, does neg hitting and sarcasm work against you in the dating world???

 

[Buck Rogers]

You are already losing the game by giving a **** bro.

who cares what they think?

 

[PokerStar]

You are already losing the game by giving a **** bro.

who cares what they think?

thats what I thought.

I sorta 2nd guess myself today, which i usually dont.

 

[Leporello]

You can't be too witty with most girls. It goes right over their heads.

 

[PokerStar]

You can't be too witty with most girls. It goes right over their heads.

oh I make sure i dumb it down to their level.

 

[Warrior74]

There is a line between sarcasm/wit and being verbally abusive. Make sure you know the line. After you know the line and you are sure you haven't crossed it, don't worry about what they say. Ignore them. My kid tells me I'm mean when we have play fights and tickle fights, but she loves to play. You have to treat them like kids playing..this is how adult girls do it. They cry mean and stick around for more.

 

[PokerStar]

I know im not verbally abusive, ha trust me, my pops was verbally abusive and I made a vow to myself to never cross that line.

I make a quick remark and laugh right after.

They cry mean and stick around for more.

see that's the thing.

If they dont like it they can see themselves out the door.

BUT the ones that stcik around

The more and more they take my scarasm and wit, the more and more I like them.

 

[CuriousGirl]

As long as it's funny and not just plain offensive then there's nothing wrong it. A lot of the time I'll laugh my head off and say "aaw that's mean!", I wasn't offended by it, I still found it funny, but it's just my way of saying "I'm aware some people would find that offensive, I found it funny but am not laughing in serious agreement".
Do you notice that girls will do this mostly if guys are making nasty jokes about people or sensitive subjects? Some of the jokes are funny but the people they're about would be offended by them or the subject it's about could be sensitive for other people, so it's more of a way of acknowledging that than indicating you've taken offence.

 

[PokerStar]

Do you notice that girls will do this mostly if guys are making nasty jokes about people or sensitive subjects? Some of the jokes are funny but the people they're about would be offended by them or the subject it's about could be sensitive for other people, so it's more of a way of acknowledging that than indicating you've taken offence.

If its a person/friend that ive known for years and I stepped over that line. I will say Im sorry. with a smirk at the end.

 

[CuriousGirl]

If its a person/friend that ive known for years and I stepped over that line. I will say Im sorry. with a smirk at the end.

Yeah but you'd think with a friend you've known for years would know you're just joking, like with family. I live in a big family and so teasing and that is pretty much a given! And because of that I know how to take a joke, I'm only ever offended if someone intends to offend me, it's more about the malicious intent that would upset me.

 

[joe henny]

You are already losing the game by giving a **** bro.

who cares what they think?

I second that. Just don't be too much of an ass they're not men and can't take harsh criticism as well

 

[PokerStar]

Yeah but you'd think with a friend you've known for years would know you're just joking, like with family. I live in a big family and so teasing and that is pretty much a given! And because of that I know how to take a joke, I'm only ever offended if someone intends to offend me, it's more about the malicious intent that would upset me.

oh no, im not that type of person to again, verbally assault someone. im not like that at all.

Its very rare that I bite my tongue, frankly i say what comes to mind, but i do process it in my head before I say it.

 

[Iceberg]

A line I learned from Tucker Max's book a few years ago:

F**k them if they can't take a joke.

Of course, you don't want to be a total A-hole to people. There's a gentle difference between calling someone a "moron" or sarcastically saying, "is this conversation going over your head, hun?" Both phrases say the same thing. But one gets the person to laugh at herself.

But you probably already know that.

 

[Mr. Goods]

A line I learned from Tucker Max's book a few years ago:

F**k them if they can't take a joke.

Of course, you don't want to be a total A-hole to people. There's a gentle difference between calling someone a "moron" or sarcastically saying, "is this conversation going over your head, hun?" Both phrases say the same thing. But one gets the person to laugh at herself.

But you probably already know that.

This, especially the bold. I've been the same way starting a couple of months ago. I like to joke/tease/use wit as long as it's in good taste. If the girl doesn't get it, too bad for them.

Pokerstar, you should just be you. If a girl doesn't like what you have to say (as long as it's not downright mean/offensive), f*ck them. They aren't the judge of you. However you want to act, that's how you should act. The people who like you for you are the ones you want to keep around.

 

[BigJimbo]

Pokerstar, you should just be you. If a girl doesn't like what you have to say (as long as it's not downright mean/offensive), f*ck them. They aren't the judge of you. However you want to act, that's how you should act. The people who like you for you are the ones you want to keep around.

Uh, horrible advice. Try "just being you" in places like America! Try it! You are screwed if you do. Hell, I would get nothing but a 40 year old single mother if I stuck around in America. As it stands I get girls that guys jerk off to in America by simply being ME! The secret? Leave. Sorry, just the truth. The numbers are against you in much of the world. There is NO WAY that the typical guy in a country like America is going to get a decent girl. Just no way. That is why sites like this are so popular. Why pickup material has a market in countries like America and Britain. They avoid that biggest issue - NUMBERS! The numbers are against the average guy.

Of course we have the teenagers who tell me to "improve myself". Well, I am too old for that. I would rather be me and date girls that are too young for me. No chance of doing that in America. Just no bleeping way possible. If I was a bad dude I would see it differently. However, I am a pvssycat. Haven't hurt a fly or broken any laws (outside of speeding) anywhere on earth. Those are the things that make me incapable of having a good life in a place like America.