"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sapiens is a troll.

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If you look at his posts before his "Finding your confidence" thread, he talks completely differently and in the way he writes you can tell he is just trying to learn stuff from this site. Once he starts the "Confidece" thread, he speaks like he is a holier-than-thou master PUA and successful in all avenues of life.

In October, someone started a bootcamp to "destroy the afc from within" by virtual sarging together and asking members to provide email addresses. Guess who signed up for it? Yep, it was Sapiens who not only provided his email address but wrote "Need all the practice I can get. LOL"

In literally less than 2 weeks after he wrote that, he makes that infamous "Finding your confidence" thread where he supposedly charges his neighbor $5000 in order to "help" him be more like him. He talks about how he picks up HB9.99's on a regular basis in that thread. He then supposedly transforms his student from some fat socially inept guy in a few weeks to being this guy who opens groups and gets any HB9.99 he wants. This kind of rapid transformation is unbelievable. Oh yeah, and on top of that he also becomes a millionaire. There are also troll indications with outlandish stories of ex-gfs trying to physically kill his student.

What made me and many other posters suspicious in the get go was the descriptions of his transactions with HBs. Every word that comes out of either person's mouth is something extremely witty. They were obviously fabricated. Have you guys seen the movie Closer? The dialogue is like that, unbelievably witty and ficticious.

And what makes it worse is his interactions with his student, "Grasshopers". This "student" was nothing more than an author surrogate, asking only philosophical questions and then agreeing with everything Sapiens says. Definition of author surrogate: "As a literary technique, an author surrogate is a character who expresses the ideas, questions, personality and morality of the author".

I'm sure the guy had good intentions and also wanted people to stroke his ego in the process, but he is a fraud.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Get the ROPE!!!!
 

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SELF-MASTERY said:
Get the ROPE!!!!
I guess there are no fair trials on Sosuave. LMAO!!! This forum is so much fun. :D
 

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I got my torch, who we linchin?
 

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Permission said:
If you look at his posts before his "Finding your confidence" thread, he talks completely differently and in the way he writes you can tell he is just trying to learn stuff from this site. Once he starts the "Confidece" thread, he speaks like he is a holier-than-thou master PUA and successful in all avenues of life.

In October, someone started a bootcamp to "destroy the afc from within" by virtual sarging together and asking members to provide email addresses. Guess who signed up for it? Yep, it was Sapiens who not only provided his email address but wrote "Need all the practice I can get. LOL"

In literally less than 2 weeks after he wrote that, he makes that infamous "Finding your confidence" thread where he supposedly charges his neighbor $5000 in order to "help" him be more like him. He talks about how he picks up HB9.99's on a regular basis in that thread. He then supposedly transforms his student from some fat socially inept guy in a few weeks to being this guy who opens groups and gets any HB9.99 he wants. This kind of rapid transformation is unbelievable. Oh yeah, and on top of that he also becomes a millionaire. There are also troll indications with outlandish stories of ex-gfs trying to physically kill his student.

What made me and many other posters suspicious in the get go was the descriptions of his transactions with HBs. Every word that comes out of either person's mouth is something extremely witty. They were obviously fabricated. Have you guys seen the movie Closer? The dialogue is like that, unbelievably witty and ficticious.

And what makes it worse is his interactions with his student, "Grasshopers". This "student" was nothing more than an author surrogate, asking only philosophical questions and then agreeing with everything Sapiens says. Definition of author surrogate: "As a literary technique, an author surrogate is a character who expresses the ideas, questions, personality and morality of the author".

I'm sure the guy had good intentions and also wanted people to stroke his ego in the process, but he is a fraud.
Over half the people on this site are trolls and those are usually the guys writing the advice. The other half are just confused real people.

I think that most of the bible is written by clueless trolls to be honest.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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....hasn't he not been up here for like a year?

Plus, why does this matter? Ever since this krassus v angeluspua thing people have been getting really paranoid.

It's not that serious, and you are wasting precious time posting a thread. And yes damnit I'm wasting time posting so ****ing what I'm a hypocrite :p.
 

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Anyone remember the Spanish Inquisition or the Salem witch trials? :crazy:
 

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mpimpin said:
Anyone remember the Spanish Inquisition or the Salem witch trials? :crazy:
YES, cotton mathers.
 

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If you look at his posts...........but he is a fraud.
So what you're basically trying to say is that he can't be a good DJ because he said that he could use all the practice he can get? Is that right? Because it seems like that's the only thing you can come up with that would indicate to you that he's a fraud. Of course, if you were smarter, you would realise that the best at anything (DJing, racing, sports, life in general) are those that keep at it and get all the practice they can no matter how good they are. That's how they got to be the best, and that's how they stay the best and don't let the game get ahead of them. I obviously can't vouch for the veracity of Sapien's posts, I don't know anything about the guy and I don't even think I've read much of what he wrote, but if the only reason you think he's a troll is because he wants practice, then you're nothing but a noob who doesn't now and might never really "get it". No offense. If I've overlooked something in your post, please correct me, but the only evidence you offer to back up your theory seems to be "a real DJ wouldn't sign up for a bootcamp or need practice." That's just flawed thinking right there.

mpimpin said:
Anyone remember the Spanish Inquisition
I remember it, but I never expected it. Nobody does....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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S1NNER, it's obvious you didn't even read my post, so there's no point to give a real reply.
 

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Umm, yeah, I read the post. You don't like what he writes and because stuff like that doesn't happen to you, you assume that it can't happen to anybody so it must be "fabricated". I just went and read some of his stuff in the interim here, and I read some of your stuff.

Not much contest who contributes more to this site, I must say. Sure he has some stupid replies to posts made by other people, but the core of what he started threads on made all sorts of sense.

But I guess "which sexual situation would you rather be in?" and "what's the best sport?" are much more worthwhile topics, hmm?

Yeah, it's confirmed, you don't "get it"..
 

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Umm, yeah, I read the post. You don't like what he writes and because stuff like that doesn't happen to you
Nope not at all. Please read carefully. :)
 

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Oh no, you gave me negative reputation because I don't agree with you!! What ever am I going to do?!?

Fcuking children. :rolleyes:
 

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Oh no, you gave me negative reputation because I don't agree with you!! What ever am I going to do?!?

Fcuking children. :rolleyes:

Oh I don't know, you'll probably get all defensive and start using immature insults? hahaha
And by the way, the negative rep was not for disagreeing with me, it was for your lack of reading comprehension and illogical arguments. =)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Who honestly cares whose a troll or not? If it's uplifting and motivational we need all we can get. Just be sure to remember that everybody on this site is just an alias untill proven otherwise.
 

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Permission said:
If you look at his posts before his "Finding your confidence" thread, he talks completely differently and in the way he writes you can tell he is just trying to learn stuff from this site. Once he starts the "Confidece" thread, he speaks like he is a holier-than-thou master PUA and successful in all avenues of life.

In October, someone started a bootcamp to "destroy the afc from within" by virtual sarging together and asking members to provide email addresses. Guess who signed up for it? Yep, it was Sapiens who not only provided his email address but wrote "Need all the practice I can get. LOL"

In literally less than 2 weeks after he wrote that, he makes that infamous "Finding your confidence" thread where he supposedly charges his neighbor $5000 in order to "help" him be more like him. He talks about how he picks up HB9.99's on a regular basis in that thread. He then supposedly transforms his student from some fat socially inept guy in a few weeks to being this guy who opens groups and gets any HB9.99 he wants. This kind of rapid transformation is unbelievable. Oh yeah, and on top of that he also becomes a millionaire. There are also troll indications with outlandish stories of ex-gfs trying to physically kill his student.

What made me and many other posters suspicious in the get go was the descriptions of his transactions with HBs. Every word that comes out of either person's mouth is something extremely witty. They were obviously fabricated. Have you guys seen the movie Closer? The dialogue is like that, unbelievably witty and ficticious.

And what makes it worse is his interactions with his student, "Grasshopers". This "student" was nothing more than an author surrogate, asking only philosophical questions and then agreeing with everything Sapiens says. Definition of author surrogate: "As a literary technique, an author surrogate is a character who expresses the ideas, questions, personality and morality of the author".

I'm sure the guy had good intentions and also wanted people to stroke his ego in the process, but he is a fraud.
I read this post four or five times. The conclusion I come to every time is "and we care because...." Despite whatever good intentions you have for calling a member who hasn't been here for about 8 months a troll (remind me to never hire you as my private detective if I have any problems) you could interchange his name with about 100-200 other people on this site and nothing beneficial would come of it. This leads me to ask you the following questions.
A) Why do you care about this one member?
B) What do you want the Moderators or Members to do about it?
C) Why did you wait so long to make this oh so inspirational evaluation of someones status as a troll?

You can anwser these questions if you want...or not becaue honestly I don't care.
 

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What the hell is happening here!? I'm starting to believe I'm the only one that doesnt lie around here!!!

We should change this forum from Don Juan Discusion Forum too Guess who's a troll Forum
 

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What the hell is happening here!? I'm starting to believe I'm the only one that doesnt lie around here!!!
In fact, I, and all the other posters, are the same person. I created this community just to trick you, Tavii.

What, did you think real people would ask if some girl on Myspace is "playing games"? And post entire chat logs?
 

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how is he a troll? i have read his stuff and it tried it. guess what?? it really works and it's free. you are an idiot.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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