Santo Domingo for Carnaval

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Don Juan

Dec 13, 2015

Hello all,

Has anyone gone to Santo Domingo for Carnaval? I plan on going there towards the end of it (the week of Feb. 22) in a couple of months.

My question is, is it better to stay at a hotel or airbnb it, in terms of bringing girls I meet back to my place? I prefer hotels because that's what I am used to, but most reviews say they don't allow local girls in unless they have a cedula, or they charge you to bring them in.

Is there any particular location you recommend staying in in Santo Domingo for Carnaval? I'd greatly appreciate your response.

Happy Holidays

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.