Santa Monica / West Hollywood / Los Angeles

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

PowerAbuse

Don Juan

May 22, 2014

Hi everyone, in the month of June I'll be living in Los Angeles, specifically near Brentwood, which is between Santa Monica and West Hollywood.

If anyone is within 25 miles of that area of Los Angeles, please hit me up. I'm willing to drive down as far as Long Beach.

I haven't done "cold approaches" in years and need some practice. It would be cool to learn from some of you guys or at least go out and fail together. Worst case scenario I'll meet some new people.

PM me so we can hang out.

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.