"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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San Francisco clubbin

Vanilla

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Plannin to go clubbing in San Francisco next weekend. Possibly at Ruby Skye unless someone has a better suggestion. Hit me up if you're interested in joining me.

PM me for my number.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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clubbing

hey im down to hit up the clubs this weekend. send me a pm
 

Ken785

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whoever wants to sarge in sf...feel free to PM me....serious people only. No pvssies.
 

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Sorry guys I had the worst flu ever, knocked me out for a full week. I'm going to gather myself up this weekend.

If anyone else wants to tag along, hit up this thread or PM me. I originally was planning Ruby Skye since I'm more familiar with the place.

LETS DO THIS
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Vanilla

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I've been hitting some of the clubs in SF, found a cool few places. If you want to join, you must be over 21 since I go to clubs that have alcohol.
 

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Just don't go to ruby skye on a saturday. That was the worst I have ever seen it, there were about 20 guys to every girl... Im told that thursday is the night to go there.
 
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