"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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jim123

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hey fellow dj's, anyone in San Diego looking to sarge?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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rabakenz

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North County Coastal

Hey Jim, I'm up in Encinitas and definitely want to get out and use these techniques.
 

jim123

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hey that sounds cool. I work in La Jolla and Del Mar. We should meet up. I'll send you a pm
 

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I tried pming you but it says your settings doesn't let you receive emails.
 

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I am sarging in san diego. I dont commit to a certain area but I have managed to become a regular at a good club and pub downtown. I do however lack the social proof a good wingman can provide. I have sarged in hawaii and sacramento. True confidence that is derived from a good life is my goal. Any who wish to join can reach me on here or through yahoo messenger @ sicmaro67.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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