"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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San Diego, Carlsbad/Encinitas Active Wingman Call

skarvada

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Hey guys, I'm Andrew, 33, in Oceanside. Been into the game for years now,
familiar with all the pros Mystery, Lovedrop, Rsd, Dyd, Swingcatt etc. If any of you guys ever sarge or want to sarge the Carlsbad/Encinitas area or even Pacific Beach or downtown, hit me up. I know all the hot spots and best times for each venue.

We are also creating an active group that meets up on a regular basis to learn and share material , meet new wingmen, and to go out and meet women and practice our game. If your interested in joining the group or if your looking for an extra wingman and are at least 25 years old, call or text me, 76o 814-3648, and we'll meet up and see if there's a fit. Let's do this.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Solomon

Master Don Juan
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I don't live in San Diego but I will be Visiting in less than 2 months

Any recommendations for venues that are "Black Men Friendly" I prefer lounges that are high end with hot loose women

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