San Diego, Carlsbad/Encinitas Active Wingman Call

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Don Juan

Aug 2, 2013

Hey guys, I'm Andrew, 30, in Oceanside. Been into the game for years now, familiar with all the pros Mystery, Rsd, Dyd. If any of you guys ever sarge or want to sarge the Carlsbad/Encinitas area hit me up. I know all the hot spots and best times for each venue.

We are also creating an active group that meets up on a regular basis to learn and share material , meet new wingmen, and to go out and meet women and practise our game. If your interested in joining the group or if your looking for an extra wingman and are at least 25 years old, call or text me, 76o 814-3648, and we'll meet up. Let's do this.

A-

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.