Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Thanks.FoolsCause said:I used to live on the Vegas Strip. It's good for gambling and strippers. Drink plenty of water to stay hydrated. Have fun but steer clear of the traffic cops. Take a taxi after dark.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Oh man are you serious?! Thats my college dood. Ive taken about a year off from there though and saving money in JC. Im guessing you've heard about SDSU right? If not: CHICK HEAVEN...omg, once fall season starts(when its still pretty warm) you thought u were in babe heaven. I swear, some of these chicks must have blown their principles cuz alot are dumb as fcuk. Anyways, even though its chick heaven, the SDSU is also known as STDSU because the ratio is like 1 out of 3 PEOPLE. Yes, both guys and girls at least from what ive heard(majority dormers). Ill have to say im clean though(cuz im a v-card holder =P). Now for SD in general...BABE heaven! well at least in the SDSU/mission valley areas and other places in northern SD. I live in Chula Vista which is a city within SD and is practically by the border. Got any other questions?Maxtro said:I've been accepted to San Diego State so I might be going there in the summer. I know next to nothing about the city other than it's by the ocean and close to Mexico.
FCUK YES!:rockon:Maxtro said:There are about 1,300 more women then men.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.