"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sammo's next step: mental improvement

Sammo

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If you have read any of my posts you would know how much i stress self improvement, and this post is no different. :) However in the majority of my other posts i stronly suggested the improving of your physical, once you improved your physical you felt better about yourself and life seemed a little easier.

I stressed some mental improvements such as friendliness, not taking ****, expanding your social circles, etc. Now im going to look inside of our heads and change the mentality that drives our actions, making things a little more natural and a whole lot more fun. :D

I'm not sure how long this series will go on for because there are just so many damn things i have to get out on this topic. It is after all our personallity and way of thinking that is the most attractive thing we can develop. I do however, reccomend you get into good shape and make yourself more attractive physically before you start molding your personallity.

So recapping, this series will be about improving your personallity.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This self-improvement stuff is great, I'm eagerly awaiting this.
 

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Include the importance of not thinking. Unproductive thinking is counter-productive thinking. It's all about the action.
 

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Originally posted by Pex
Include the importance of not thinking. Unproductive thinking is counter-productive thinking. It's all about the action.
The importance of now will be discussed.
 
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